Especially when you know she is the type that will never give an inch even if she is hurting herself. She will try not to show she is hurting. She will let the marriage to break before she gives up on her pride. Do they ever give up or should I stop trying? Is there such thing like a woman trust a man? Why do I bother? Because I believe deep inside she is very honest and nice. Should I continue even if I do not get anything from this marriage and sacrifice to stay fair?
2007-01-17 06:49:57 · 7 answers · asked by The Turk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think I would have had enough of that crap a long time ago and would have left.
It's nice that you think she's honest way deep inside... but did it ever occur to you that she's just a witch who manipulates you into believing she has some good in her?
If she won't seek help and enjoys hurting you and the marriage more than being a true partner,it's your life to waste with her.
Surely it occurred to you to think that she enjoys being this way and she's happy to be in total control of everything, and actually likes seeing everyone suffer.
2007-01-17 06:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get her into therapy that would help, but if not give up. The reason that I say that is that she has a personality disorder and she will never understand your reasoning.
Most likely she experienced some type of abuse as a child and that has led her to a confused view of communication. She does not see the world in the same way that you do.
I know a bit of what you are experiencing. My wife was badly abused as a child and during her adult life. Without medication she would not be able to communicate properly at all.
Take care,
Troy
2007-01-17 07:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really believe she's passive agressive then you would know what she needs and instead youre probably very stubborn.
to say you dont get anything from the marriage....means youre not really in it and ignore the problems instead of trying to work things out. be more of a hero/leader when she's hurting and be her sweetheart when she's agressive?? seek counseling or sit with her and discuss strategies. spend more time together walking, talking holding hands and being kind to each other. peace
2007-01-17 07:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! it truly is the only question absolutely everyone who resides with a passive aggressive individual asks. it type of feels to me that even regardless of the reality that they are those with the concern, you may should be the only to modify. Passive aggressive human beings do not believe that they are doing something incorrect. This seems problem-free to me because that is continuously their major different they are appearing this thanks to and no individual else. seem up some stuff on conflict administration, which could help you to regulate your anger. except that, get some counseling which could also help you. i spotted a change in my husband (an truly small change) after i began to do issues for myself. really, you may ought to locate problem-free approaches to develop into passive in case you want your relationship to artwork. i'm nonetheless hunting for some incorrect way. in basic terms positioned, i love feeling, no matter if its good or undesirable, my thoughts are who i'm, and that i do not want to grant them up. i love who i'm, yet i don't love the indignant individual I develop into even as my husband chooses to ignore me for days and then pretends he did not keep in mind that he became doing this. each so often it feels as regardless of the reality that he's speaking in circles. He says one concern and than an hour later he says the option. besides, good success. i desire you do locate a thanks to stay such as your spouse. i'm confident that she is a robust individual yet for what ever reason she would not sense worth of you, that is why she builds herself up by technique of breaking you down. start up doing stuff for you, and supplies you up focusing on what's going to make her satisfied. April
2016-10-15 09:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide whether you are going to be able to stick it
out or not...She will probably get worse, not better...
If you don't think you can take it then don't waste any more time
with her...Get it over with and move on...Divorce her..
2007-01-17 06:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give up unless she is willing to get therapy and medication...
2007-01-17 06:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Counseling where you two need to be.
2007-01-17 06:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋