i am having a bad week everything is going worng and i tyr to stop it but i cant and i thank that i may have been nilen and didnt see i was hurting someone i love deeply how can i make iot right ??? wut sould i do? the only thing thats worng now is that they said i maybe to nice to ppl and they walk over me i and kind to everyone its just who i am well shes maybe gone but i still want to tell her i am sorry i have did a poem and a letter and a email but nothing is working it will not make it to her in time i want to tell her today not tomorrow i want to make this right again any ideals ?????
2007-01-17 06:47:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you want i have a beautiful poem which i wrote it and i'm ready to give it for you and i don't mind if you tell her that you wrote it , okay?
2007-01-17 06:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are or how bad you hurt this person, but here's the deal. All you can do is apologize from deep inside you, and not from the place of fear that you'll lose this person. You have to apologize from the place where you recognize that you are sorry, and that you understand that you hurt this person and would be hurt if they left, but you would understand if they didn't forgive you, because you love them, and wouldn't want them to keep hurting. You are strong and capable of saying the right thing, you just have to stop being afraid that they are going to walk away, and be willing to see it from their perspective. That's the only way you're going to get to talk to them like a human being. Just love them, if you love them, and tell the truth. And don't try and control their emotions.
2007-01-17 15:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dayton S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're genuinely sorry, than you'll know what to do to make up for whatever it is that your did and NOT do it again. Don't be one of those people that does the same thing over and over and think an apology will make it better.
2007-01-17 14:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Leila P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. If it's true love, she will come back because she will be able to understand, accept and forgive your mistakes no matter how severe. If you are young, then you have plenty of time to find new love no matter how hard it may be to comprehend. Don't dwell on it and surround yourself with friends who care and will be there for you. Go out and have fun. It's hard, but with time it will pass and just simply be a memory of your past.
2007-01-17 14:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by Erik S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to use writing as a way to court your potential love interests, you'd best study up on English grammer if you're still in school, or dust off some grammer books if you aren't.
If you already know how to write and spell correctly and are just rushing, please do so in the future. It makes it way too difficult to decipher your question.
2007-01-17 14:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by JDJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this situations confrontation is the best thing, u have tried in many ways but u didn't try to talk to her face-to-face, meet her & tell her what u feel towards her , tell her everything honestly. and when she feels that u r really sorry, i think she'll forgive u.
2007-01-17 14:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have tried everything that a human can possibly do to try and make her happy and just set everthing right then just wait to see if she'll come back to you, if she is really yours, she'll come back, just wait, patience is the key and just trust God.
2007-01-17 14:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by londonrometokyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step #1: Learn to use punctuation.
2007-01-17 14:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a note with an appology
2007-01-17 14:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly think before you act,com front her and say you are sorry,give her some nice things she wants or she asks.
2007-01-17 14:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by ganesh n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋