Even when youhave proof and if you present it, they just scream at you and tell you you are sick in the head and make you the one out to be the bad guy. WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TO LIE ?????? EVEN WITH PROOF EVERYWHERE ?!!!!??? Why does a person stay with you, if they are sending messages to another saying " love you" and even though it is right there staring them in the face they are prone to call YOU the liar ???!!!?!?!?!?! What the F ??
2007-01-17 06:46:51 · 11 answers · asked by Yvette you aBET .. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Enough is enough yesterday.
They lie because they got caught or have NPD.
They stay because they know the new person wouldn't tolerate their crap, but you will and do.
It's your life- you can stay or you can go.
2007-01-17 06:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The other person is deeply disturbed and in denial - they know they can walk all over you so continue to do so. You are letting this person have control over you and make you think that you are losing your mind. if this person cannot admit they are wrong and make it better then be strong and get out. I dont think this person is of sound mind...
2007-01-17 06:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Islandgirlss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few people like dealing with truth because it can't be changed. Once its out there you have take action, which usually means having to deal with pain. If you deny the truth, no action needs to be taken, and so no pain has to occur.
2007-01-17 06:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are believing their own lie and just can't face the fact they've been caught. I say leave this person and find someone that won't believe their lies.
2007-01-17 06:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just manipulating the situation to get out of trouble. It is easier to make you think you are wrong than to admit they are. You don't want to around people like this.
2007-01-17 06:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is why do you stay with them ? if you have proof and your sure that there is something going on, then why are you staying ? obviously this person is not going to fess up, and you know whats going on so LEAVE
2007-01-17 06:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start running and keep running - you shouldn't be with someone who lies to you! Relationships are built on respect and honesty, if you don't have that, you don't have much of a relationship! Move on to someone better, who deserves you
2007-01-17 07:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why are you still with someone who is doing that? Leave em. Find your self esteem and someone who is more respectful of you as a human being.
2007-01-17 07:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be with someone who lies and cheats! You need to realize that you're better than that and move on.
2007-01-17 06:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enough is enough right now. Get out.
2007-01-17 06:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋