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Question

I'm a 16 year old girl i dont know if i'm bi or straight becaus when i make out with guys i feel sick afterwards but i'm attracted to girls but if i am bi i dont know how to come out to my friends! help whats wrong with me

Answer 1

Im 15 and have 'made out' with both boys (drunk) and girls (not drunk and drunk), and dont feel sick after either one, and i count myself as straight, if you feel physically sick afterwards, you either are gay or bi, or you need to give your boyfriend some mints before you kiss him. good luck

Answer 2

If you are gay or bi I would think you would know by now. You have to ask your self these questions.. Am I attracted to men? Am I attracted To women? And go with your gut in stints.If you are gay chances are your friends will already know. If they are truly your friends, they will accept you, if not they weren't much of a friend to begin with. Look up all the information you can on being gay.. and learn from it. You may not be ready for a boyfriend also, if you get sick kissing?? or afraid?/ weigh the pros and cons.. You will figure it out naturally.. good luck!!

Answer 3

Even if you are gay or bi, why do you feel that you have to come out now? If you decide that you are gay or bi, wait until you are a bit older before you decide to come out to the world. It will be alot easier when you are on your own and don't have to worry how parents or school mates are going to react to you. Trust me, their is a big difference in how you look and deal with things when you are 16 and 23. All you are going to gain by coming out now, is heartache. So boys make you sick. Just don't date any of them. Tell people you don't have time for that stuff because you are focused on school and that you want to go to college, to get a good education. At your age, this is what you should be concentrating on anyway. I feel for ya. I really do.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with you! Welcome to growing up!

Its a downer, I know, I remember very clearly. Its something we all have to trudge through. Some remember it better than others.

You're at the stage in your life where you are trying to figure out who you are. Relax. Reflect. Give yourself time, and don't let anyone tell you how you are suppose to feel except yourself.

Whether you are gay or straight at 16 you shouldn't be making out with ANYBODY! You don't want to get pregnant, do you?

Its ok to be gay. Its ok to be straight. Its nobody else's business but yours.

Answer 5

You need to talk it out with someone you trust, sweetheart. Best friends are best. You might find that your feelings aren't all that unusual. But don't try to bottle it up and worry about it, get it out in the open; things are always less scary in the light. And don't try to label yourself just yet. You are what you are, not what someone calls you. You're a complex person, not a pigeon hole.

Answer 6

I used to want to throw up when I kissed my boyfriend. I had identified as bisexual as before. Now I'm in love with a girl I met online, and haven't kissed her yet but I know I won't be sick after kissing her. I'm gay.

Answer 7

There is only thing that is wrong with you
You are to young to get upset already over this.
Experiment as long as you need to figure what you will be.
Why waste your youth with these difficult questions.
The answer will present itself soon enough to you.
Greetings:Rob.xxx

Answer 8

I would say you are 16, keep it inside you a cuple of years, finnish school, then question your self.

Answer 9

Keep an open mind for awhile and keep experimenting. Eventually it will come clear.

Answer 10

try looking up gay and lesbian support groups on line, read what they have to say then take it from there