he wont work,eats every thing in the flat,farts all the time,and even nicked my clothes to go out in,oh and he even drank all my beer the other day whan i was at work
2007-01-17 06:34:28 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How about "pack your bags and get out"
or get out of here you lazy smelly person.
2007-01-17 06:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1- Know for sure that you really do want him to leave. If you are simply upset with your partner, you should consider talking about what upset you rather than ending the relationship.
2- Before having "the talk" that ends the relationship, think about the reasons you are breaking up. Your partner will ask you why you want out, and you should be prepared with answers. If you have trouble remembering examples during emotional discussions or arguments, write your reasons down in advance.
3- Plan out how long you are willing to spend "breaking up" and stick to your schedule. You may even want to arrange an appointment with a friend in a neutral location so that you can say "I'm supposed to meet John at the restaurant in fifteen minutes, so I have to go now."
4- Sit down with your partner and let him or her know that you need to have a serious talk. When asked "why?" or "about what?", simply respond that you've decided to end the relationship.
5- Expect your partner to do any or all of the following:
* Question -- He or she will want to know why, and whether there was anything he or she could have done to prevent the breakup. Answer the questions as honestly as possible.
* Cry -- The other person will likely be upset, and it will show. It is okay to comfort him or her, but don't allow yourself to be manipulated into changing your decision.
* Argue -- He or she may dispute anything you've said during the breakup, including examples you used in your reasons for breaking up. Don't get dragged into a fight, and don't split hairs. Let your partner know that arguing isn't going to change your decision.
* Bargain/Beg -- He or she may offer to change, or to do things differently in order to preserve the relationship. If the person didn't change when you've discussed your problems in the past, it is too late to expect him or her to truly change now.
* Lash Out -- Whether it's as simple as saying "You'll never find anyone as good as me" or as scary as saying "I'll make you regret this", he or she is usually just trying to make himself or herself feel better.
Warnings
* Never threaten that you will break up with your partner. If you have problems or concerns, work through them or break up. Threats of any kind will only make the relationship worse.
* Threats of physical harm are serious and should not be ignored. If you feel that your safety is at risk, contact the police as soon as it is safe to do so and request a restraining order.
2007-01-17 06:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you talked to him about this? Does he know you are fed up? If you want him out just tell him. Don't start nagging at him for these things and have it develop into a fight. Sit down and tell him you don't approve of his childish behavior and these aren't qualities you are looking for in a mate.Tell him you have higher expectations of a mate and don't see this relationship going any further. Good luck!
2007-01-17 06:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him politely but firmly that unless he changes his ways then he has a week to leave. If things dont improve then kick him out and change the locks. He is being disrespectful towards you. A friend like that isn't worth having!
2007-01-17 06:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say hey this thing not working out at all man. You gotta go cause all you do is eat and fart. and i've had it up to my brain. And buy back my darn beers b4 u go aight!! And i mean today.
2007-01-17 06:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by bootygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you sit him down and tell him straight to his face, politely but sternly and explain what it is about him thats bothering you so much .If that doesnt work just give him the cold shoulder and hopefully he will get the message.
2007-01-17 06:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it may be easier and cheaper for you to move. Spongers don't leave, they know when they have a good thing. You could try telling him to find some where else to live as you are leaving.
2007-01-17 06:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep playing the song by Ray Charles, "Hit the Road Jack", maybe he'll eventually get the message!
2007-01-17 06:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to leave and if he won't get him evicted. If the place is yours and his name does not appear on any of the paper work then you have the right to evict him.
2007-01-17 06:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Aliz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU FIRST HAVE TO START BY BEING HONEST WITH HIM AND YOURSELF.TELL HIM THAT YOU NO LONGER WANT TO BE WITH HIM AND EXPLAIN WHY ! CAUSE EVERYONE DESERVES THE TRUTH..THEN THAT WILL TAKE CARE OF HIM DRINKING YOUR BEER AND EATING ALL THE FOOD IN THE FLAT....CAUSE HE WILL NO LONGER BE THERE TO DO THESES THING'S.
2007-01-17 06:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by roady_cat_elgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound much of a mate to me stop being soft and kick the c**t out.
2007-01-17 06:38:36 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋