2007-01-17 06:19:32 · 36 answers · asked by Flava 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Disappointed....hurt....and a failure as a husband! I don't look at it, and would expect her not to as well.
2007-01-17 06:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. It's not a reflection on your relationship, or how well satisfied you keep her - no more than when you do it.
She could just be bored. If she is still meeting your needs all's good. Hopefully she will find something new to try as someone else mentioned. Suggestion: bring up the subject of viewing it together. She might not be into the idea so start with 'couples' videos that focus on relationships and stores, as time goes by she may be more inclined to view the more straight to it types guys prefer. You could also just try a date night, dinner - maybe at home you cook or order something nice in & then you bring out the 'couples' video. Sounds like a nice evening to me.
2007-01-17 06:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by ang_phx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her looking at it when you are around, what's the difference? Do you look at porn when she's not around? Or is this a ritual that you two normally do together and you found out she's been getting some porn it without you? Either way you two should talk about her looking at porn when you're not there.
2007-01-17 06:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my wife was like most women and went psycho whenever I looked at another woman, that would seem like a double standard. Myself, I don't do much porn because I just don't have time. My wife doesn't mind when she catches me looking through a magazine or whatnot if we're at the store or whatever. She has looked at some things online while I'm at work from time to time, and it doesn't bother me.
2007-01-17 06:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, my EX-husband, used to watch it, when I was sleeping, before work, and one time I caught him and he was doing the nasty to an old 60s "Porn"........ And I said to him: "What the heck, Gosh David this is really messed-up, what the H--- am I for?" I'm your D--- wife, for crying out loud!!! His excuse was he didn't want to wake me, YEAH RIGHT, whatever!! I actually devorced him for various other abusive reasons and PORN!!! It really put a WALL between our intimacy times!! Espcially when I found a magazine under his side of the mattress, with nothing but college girls in it, none of them had pubic hair, whatsoever!!! And I told him, that him looking at girls like that is why their's so many PERV's out there looking at little girls that way!!! And that those girls were my daughter's ages!!! How dare him!!! Its really a big "Turn-Off" to me, guys who are into Porn!!! Its also a sin according to the bible...... IF thine eye causes you to sin, then pluck it out, rather than burn in HELL for all eternity!!! That's what the bible says about that!! Or lusting after someone who's not your husband or wife, you know!! Well, Good-Luck, getting her away from that addiction!!! Smile!!!
2007-01-17 06:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I am sorry I do not mean to Laugh at you but you are not gonna make me believe that you have never looked at Porn. Why is it any different for her.?..Do not be so uptight about it, Some types of Porn are stimulating, and can be for both of you. Try sharing a good Porn Movie with your mate, you just might be surprised. Get past the thoughts of, is she wanting that tall good looking stud in the movie. Its you she is with and you she can show her affections for and share her intimacy with. Its a Gift, enjoy it...
2007-01-17 06:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men check out porn to some degree or the other, so why not women? Heck, if it turns her on and YOU get the benefit from this why complain? It could be even better if you be honest with each other and check it out together.
2007-01-17 06:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife does sometimes look at porn when I'm not around, and I don't really care one way or the other. It certainly doesn't interfere with our sex life.
2007-01-17 06:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just curious. A lot of women didn't see any in there teenage years, and get curious about what all the fuss is about.
Just hope she learns some new tricks she wants to try on you.
2007-01-17 06:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by Ang H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
surprised, because men are the ones doing the porn looking
2007-01-17 07:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by hanusya101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think my husband would be elated cause i check out porn all the time just because we have a **** it doesn't mean we are not human. like you've never watched porn.(for shame)
2007-01-17 06:25:15 · answer #11 · answered by wendy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋