while deployed my husband did and said things on a website that was not good. How can I get over the hurt? I like to think I was the only one on his marine mind. Can't drop the hurt feeling.
2007-01-17 06:05:05 · 15 answers · asked by marmalady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweetheart,
You are indeed the only one on his mind. The cyber sex realm is such a one dimensional realm where there no way at times to properly get the correct meaning or slant on a statement or idea. So just rule out right now the idea of him cheating, it`s not going to happen. Cyber sex folks are at time same sex folks acting out as another sex so it can be a strange time for all. LOL
He assures you, I`m sure of his love and his need for you to love him and support him doesn`t he? Be there for him baby girl, it`s tough I`m certain of that but stand strong together not divided.
Hugs, Love endures all together!
JR
2007-01-17 06:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he wsn't physically cheating on you. He was probably also not aware of the impact that cybersex would have on you. As long as he has stopped doing it give it time and you will get over it. Or, seek counselling.
2007-01-17 14:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he was deployed or stateside when he did it! It is called "Virtual Adultery" and does fall under article 134 for cheating!
If he is cybering...then he's exchanging e-mails. If he is exchanging e-mails, he is talking to the whores, if he is talking to them....he's also #&#$*&^% them too....
Hun, it's cheating anyway you look at it. Once a cheater always a cheater and with every time it gets worse and worse and worse.
Good luck and take care!
2007-01-17 15:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Smiling Belle 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you should talk with him about this. I have a problem with Cybering. I think it crosses the line. I mean it takes another person that is not part of the marriage and that is not right.
2007-01-17 14:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to cybersex for fun. I dont do it anymore. He didn;t mean to hurt you. He was having his thrills and nothing more.
2007-01-17 14:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cybersex is so LAME!!!!!!!!!!!!
How boring...."ooooo Baby, I am taking my pants off.....ooooo lets talk about my underwear and what I am gonna do to you".....LOL!!!!!
Hahahahahhaha!!! Give me the real deal anyday....or else, stop wasting my time! LOL!
Now shoe shopping online.....thats another story!
2007-01-17 14:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to Seti... get over it. It was only text on the screen.
2007-01-17 14:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about it and help him explore his fantasies. You might even find you enjoy the experiences and he will likely return the favor!
2007-01-17 14:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To CommonSense, yes indeed cybersex and porn is cheating.
2007-01-17 15:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kari R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay marrried to him you'll need to let it go. I am certain there are support groups for this somewhere.
2007-01-17 14:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋