Who do I find out without asking him personally?
Here is the situation, I have know him for about 10 years now since college and he is also my son's godfather. Since I have know him I really can recall him dating any girl. Recently, he came to my house with this guy he befriend at the gym that work at the front desk. My wife thinks he might be gay on the DL but I think he is not but then again I can be wrong. He goes to the movies with the same guy very often. He said the dude is is co-pilot. What do you think of their friendship?
2007-01-17 05:55:24 · 14 answers · asked by Tbones 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't ask us. Ask him.
2007-01-17 05:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by cardinalboy97 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't find out without asking him personally unless he tells you.
Does it matter whether he's gay or not? Do you just want to know? Make sure you understand why you're wondering and that you don't ruin a 10 year friendship by a poor reaction.
Rent "Brokeback Mountain" and leave it on the table. After you've watched it.
2007-01-17 14:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In reality ? It's really none of my business what relationship they have. If he's happy, just be happy for him. If he's frustrated, ask him to open up to you - don't solve his problem before there is one.
You will only find him resenting you for not minding your own business, and trying to pry into his.
Think about it child - you know I'm right .. back off - or he'll will.
good luck
bga
2007-01-17 14:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually assume 'just friends' until something shows or says otherwise. Friendship is a strong bond in and of itself. No matter what Freud says, the world is not always about sex.
2007-01-17 15:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, he's gay. I hope you're ok with that. Don't say I know you're gay or ask him though. Just go easy on the gay subject and he'll get around to telling you when he's ready.
2007-01-17 14:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to assume - 99.9% of the time you're right. But, you should ask him - if he says no, that means nothing. It mean's he's not ready to come out yet. Do you think other "straight" guys are gay? Probably not. Go with your gut - you're probably right.
2007-01-17 14:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay.
Yay!!!!
That lame @ss question just got me to level 2!!!!!!!!
Oh yeah, be nice to him. He's looking for your acceptance by bringing his friend over. Don't F up by responding the wrong way.
2007-01-17 14:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see where it is any of your business.
true, he is your son's godfather but you chose him for good reasons and I am sure those reasons have not changed.
if he feels you need to know, he will tell you. Until then it is his business not yours!
2007-01-17 14:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gyms are a gay dude's hang-out/pick-up place.
What do you think?
2007-01-17 14:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is more important :is he your friend so long and are you too chicken just to ask him what's going on?
This question off you is totally pointless
Greetings:Rob.xxx
2007-01-17 14:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten years of friendship and you can't just ask him?
Come on!!
2007-01-17 14:01:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋