They think I’m gay just because they saw me kiss a guy… well, a couple guys …but still, I mean it’s the 2000’s, can’t two…or 4 dudes make out with each other without being gay?
I mean, chicks dig that kinda thing anyways
2007-01-17 05:49:28 · 23 answers · asked by abascious 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do whatever makes ya feel good about yourself, dude.
2007-01-17 05:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In one hand the number of guys you kiss do not measure how gay you are (there is no homokissmeter) in the other hand no matter how many guys are kissing around you, it doesn't make you grab your buddy next to you and kiss him. Even if you are "touched by the emotion of the moment". So you have some gay or bi issues...
I do not why you get so worried, like you said, is the 2000 and gay or bi people are being accepted so get some counseling about it to make you accept your preference or orient you.
By the way if you think girls use to dig or did each other, man you need to stop seeing XXX movies!!
2007-01-17 06:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by j9313150 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In all honesty, for you to feel the need to have your parents acceptance surprises me. I guess it really doesn't matter how old you are, you must feel you're ready to disclose your sexual orientation to family.
Be brave, take a deep breath and let it out. If, when explaining your situation to your family, at anytime it starts feeling a little on the straining side, terminate the conversation. Don't go getting into a heated discussion on whether or not it's right or wrong. This is the last thing you want as a response; however, be warned, it can and may happen.
In time your family may come around, but as long as you can believe in yourself and not let it bother you, you're family may not be able to understand and may require a little time.
In the end, they may come around - if not - well I'm certain by now you are gaining a 'personal' comfort zone and you can identify as these 'boys' as 'family'. Enjoy this 'extended family', as they will become your 'support.
As far as 'chicks enjoying that kinda thing' .. dude .. everyone has their kink .. I believe you found yours, and are looking for a way to 'justify it'. Just believe in yourself and others soon will learn to believe in you too.
Good luck.
bga
2007-01-17 06:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You ask such cute questions, it's hard to know when to take you seriously!
In our culture, kissing other guys probably makes you look gay. In the rest of the world it just means you're good friends.
I wish guys could kiss each other and no one cared what, if anything, was going on between them. I think there'd be a lot less violence in our society. Guys need guy kisses sometimes, gay or straight. No offense, but I think it's sweet and innocent.
2007-01-17 07:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Um...no. First of all, all chicks do not "dig that?. If i were a straight woman, i would want a completely straight man who does not kiss other men for the hell of it. Now if you were open and honest about being bisexual and I still chose to be with you, then that's different. At least i knew what was going on. But if you do this behind your girls back, its just trifling and nasty. Secondly, you are not straight. You may be bicurious. You need to snap out of your state of denial.
2007-01-17 05:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
DUDE your gay as hell I would never kiss a guy and you have 4 guys under your belt. I don't care what year it is that doesn't matter at all, your parents are right. just admit that your gay and maybe your parents will get you. your parents see you make out with guys then you tell them your not gay I wouldn't get you either.
2007-01-17 05:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by whynot 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Make out with 4, 8, hell, even 12 guys all at once. Have an orgy, even. It's not gay unless you do it on a Tuesday...or if you're sober.
It's the 21st century, baby...
2007-01-17 05:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by cardinalboy97 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chicks don't dig it,
Guys dig chicks making out.
2007-01-17 06:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to be gay but you are bi. Parents aren't from the 2000's they aren't use to this stuff. By the way, most chicks don't dig it.
2007-01-17 05:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by j_goodwin27 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I will skip the last part but answer the first part only about kissing.
It is cultural (but only if you kiss in that sense) like people kiss their sons and daughter.
Remember President Reagan blushed because Soviet President Brezhnev kissed Reagan at the airport reception!
2007-01-17 06:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ottawan-Canada 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, chicks do not get off on two guys kissing. And no, majority of men don't kiss other men without being attracted to them. But who cares? If you want to kiss guys, then kiss them. You don't have to put yourself in a category. Do what you want!
2007-01-17 05:55:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋