well my lover is a widow with 3 children and we recently got a little more serious,{things were very good and spent most of her free time together}.She has the children in mind when she questions my motives.I am getting a divorce left a great job, and have taken the last 2 1/2 months off to fix the house and get it sold....december was very tough for me{the house had so many memories........WELL my girl and I got into a tiff she doesn't seem to think I have the work ethic/good enough job to support her/kids...also I'm in 2 courts with my ex-wife and got my 2nd DWI AND could face jail.....I got drunk and walked into her apartment and she threw me out and called her brother the tropper....she doesn't take my calls so I sent her roses.....and I guess she was excited to get them based on what the flower man said....but its only 2nd day she hasn't called. I love her more than my wife of 17 years.....I know sounds crazy.....the last 8 months I have really had my hands FULL WHAT DO YOU THINK?
2007-01-17 05:43:42 · 7 answers · asked by Smith & Jones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think if this woman means all you say she does to you, you need to get your act together, get a job, and be a responsible man, or you're going to lose her! She sounds like a person you need in your life, to help you keep your head on straight. Go for a job interview tomorrow!
2007-01-17 05:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get help for your drinking problem. Second get a job and then talk to her since this is an important point for her. Show her that you are getting your life together and if she has not moved on she might give you another chance.
2007-01-17 13:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some counseling. It sounds to me that you have enough on your plate to jump into a relationship...especially someone with children. Get your life straight first.
2007-01-17 17:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have problems with the law, and the rest of this stuff, you aren't much of a catch....and she is undoubtedly a neat lady, capable of attracting a more stable man. In her place, you would have no chance at all....
2007-01-17 13:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to set goals that are worthy and communicate them to her. Then meet those goals. Lead by example. Talk is cheap.
2007-01-17 13:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to get over your ex. Put yourself in her place, how would you feel?
2007-01-17 14:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by sweetnorma66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you say" mid life crisis"
2007-01-17 13:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by rockstar_livin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋