i know i may be a bit paranoid but should i end it with her.if i feel this way can it get better? its not fair to her if i feel like this.
2007-01-17 05:38:01 · 21 answers · asked by lisasbarred 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you spend more time being miserable than happy...go.
2007-01-17 05:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Is the problem you - are you uptight, frigid, or just plain bitchy ?
Dudette, I will never begin to understand women - NEVER, but I do know this much.
If you are not happy, because of whatever reason - you (and your inability to enjoy your partner) or her (for not making you feel comfortable around yourself, or her) then child - what the heck are you waiting for? An invitation to leave ?
Girl, your happiness should come first - IN FACT YOU SHOULD COME FIRST in everything in your life.
If you are allowing another person's behaviour rule your life, then you are not in a relationship, you are in a personal prison.
Think about it - take a deep breath - and then do what you have to do.
good luck
bga
2007-01-17 13:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you love her why not sit down and have a discussion before making any decisions? Tell her exactly how you feel and talk about ways to make some changes and give her some time to make those changes. If you don't work through problems no realtionship has a chance.
2007-01-17 13:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason you must feel like this I don't believe in being paranoid I believe that all feelings are genuine so my advice is if something is bothering you sit down and talk it out.....
2007-01-17 15:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by ladybuglove225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit her down and talk to her. Explain how you feel,as otherwise how will she know?Maybe she has no idea she is doing what you say she is.This way you give her a chance to change things. She'd be upset if you dumped her without talking to her about it first.Why cause unnecessary heartache? You need to be able to communicate for a relationship to stand any chance of surviving-so do it!Talk to her.
2007-01-17 14:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know somebody like a good friend who is close to you and sees your relationship you should ask him or her what they see going on in the relationship. Sometimes you see much more looking in from the outside. Good Luck.
2007-01-17 14:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her and get someone who will treat you really nice like Melrose does for me.
I never play games with Melrose, other than role playing, because I do not want her to take away my Melrose juice.
2007-01-17 14:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What type of games? Are they damaging to your trust and faith in her? How often? Have you talked to her about it? Does she know that it bothers you and that you are contemplating ending the relationship? If she does know & she continues to play the games, then i think you should move on.
2007-01-17 13:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dont break up with her sorry you dont even know if she is playing games with you
why do you think she is playing games with you?
say how you feel, try and sort it
2007-01-17 13:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women play games and often they are very good at it. It's important to talk this over. Otherwise it's time to say goodbye, be lucky - before she does your head irreparable damage.
2007-01-17 13:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by I'm Sparticus 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're looking for reasons to dump your girlfriend. That's a decision, it seems, you have already made. Now you are looking for encouragement to get the nerve to break up with her.
2007-01-17 13:50:57 · answer #11 · answered by Bud 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋