found out my ex is sleeping with someone else, i am still in pain its only been a couple of months , he still calls me but , he treated me so bad i am not going back , how do jyou just move on and not feel the pain
2007-01-17 05:09:11 · 14 answers · asked by nyasha33 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Just put him out of your mind. Every time you feel you are going to start thinking about him immediately think of something different - something more important to you. There are plenty of things more important to think about, in fact anything is more important than thinking about him. Don't talk about him. Don't write about him. Don't waste any more of your time being a fool for him. Wake up. Be strong. Move on. Period.
2007-01-17 10:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by mecasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still going through what YOU are. My breakup was in May and I didn't see it coming, I thought we were getting along great and making plans for the future. When you find out the answer to this I want to know. In the meantime you are not alone. I have 2 other friends going through this, too! Right now. Welcome to the club. I don't want to move on. I've had enough! Isn't it strange how some people can throw others away and have no bad feelings about it? That's called a lack of compassion. But I was not treated bad by mine. What you are feeling is love for the person you THOUGHT he was and not the person he turned out to be.
2007-01-17 14:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe
Breathe, breathe in the air
Don't be afraid to care
Leave but don't leave me
Look around and chose your own ground
For long you live and high you fly
And smiles you'll give and tears you'll cry
And all you touch and all you see
Is all your life will ever be
Run, run rabbit run
Dig that hole, forget the sun,
And when at last the work is done
Don't sit down it's time to start another one
For long you live and high you fly
But only if you ride the tide
And balanced on the biggest wave
You race toward an early grave
2007-01-17 13:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be in pain but try to get out and meet new people. If you pre occupy yourself you wont think about that jerk. Him calling you doesnt help you either. Even though Im sure you want to talk to him DONT. not yet. And did he tell you he was sleeping with someone else cuz if he did hes even more of a jerk. He would only do that to hurt you more. You dont need him girl. Your better than that.
2007-01-17 13:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by *Aimzie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex and I did the same thing. He cheated on me and moved on before we even broke up. And I loved him so much. One thing DO NOT Talk to him when he calls because it will bring all of those emotions back. Trust me, my ex called me for a year after we broke up and he would make me cry all the time. It was my own fault for talking to him. Move on, it sucks and it hurts and you feel like you are going to die. But move on, date other people, go out with friends keep yourself busy!
2007-01-17 13:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by sassygirliegirl27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes time will help but also finding someone else will help you get over him-- what he did to you was soo bad -- dont take him back!! make sure he didnt give u no diseases either! Don't accept his calls cuz as soon as u start talking to him and hear his voice ull fall into him again-- just go out with the girls and find someone else quick! good luck
2007-01-17 14:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The things other people are saying are very kind and true.
If you don't mind, I'm going to throw a little fake science into the mix. (We can never really prove what our nature as pure, unthinking animals would be, that's why it's fake science.)
As far as sex goes, we tend to get addicted to somebody. That helps the couple stay together so they can raise the kids. We only really need sexual love for kids anyway, right?
So anyway, females tend to be able to only be addicted to one male. One body, one scent, one person.
Males can be addicted to more than one.
And they all relate this actual evidence (I think they did the smell-related studies) to the IDEA that males can have more than one breed at a time, and it makes us all mix up our genes better.
It doesn't help, I know.
Just remember to think of him as ALL DOG!
There are plenty of real men out there, who can THINK like HUMANS!
2007-01-17 13:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok here goes.... Time. That's it. Everyone will say this to you because it is true. As time goes on you feel less and less sadder everyday. Some days are harder than others, but it will be ok! Good luck. Just keep busy and DONT answer those calls girl . Please.. Youll just set yourself back to where u started!
2007-01-17 13:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by izy966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. You just have to deal with the pain and try to move on yourself, it'll get better, I promise you.
2007-01-17 13:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Phat Kidd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm. well think off the bad things and go out for a drink with your girls after all he didnt have no repect for you to do that plenty more fish in the sea babe x
2007-01-17 13:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋