2007-01-17 04:51:05 · 41 answers · asked by melmak 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No. If he doesnt want a part in the babies life but I wanted the baby...he can walk away. I wouldnt go after him for support or anything unless he started demanding visitation. I would never do something I didnt want to do because someone else wanted me to.
2007-01-17 04:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by jmnixon1981 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was in that exact situation. I told my boyfriend i was pregnant. At first he was fine and i moved into his parents house. But then all the sudden on my first prenatal visit he told me he couldnt do it and thought i should have an abortion. I am sooo against that i kept refusing. Then my parents came into the picture and said they agreed and already made an appointment and i had to confirm it. I felt so preasured and no one was on my side. Even when i was about to get it done i knew it was the worst decision. That was 2 years ago and til this day i regret what i did. So whatever you do, make it YOUR choice. Do not do it because someone else wants you to. It's just not right.
2007-01-17 05:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Marilynn 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The choice is yours. Do you want the baby? Do you want to give it up for adoption? Do you believe in abortion? You are the only one that can answer these questions.
If the guy does not want it, too bad. It is your body that will have to deal with either the pregnancy or abortion. You will be the one that will have to deal with the physiological results of the decision you make.
2007-01-17 05:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by c.s. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! I would not have an abortion all because the dick wasnt ready. If he or u wasnt ready to have a child then u wernt ready to have sex! Sex causes pregnancy, dah! If u are considering to have an abortion, i think u should check out all the angles first. go to prolife.com and check out what an abortion is all about. If u can get through all u look at and still want to have one then do what u will. I am amazed at what woman will do to a child they are so uninformed about what they are doing. U can have this baby girl and be just fine. I know u can do it! I pray u make the right choice. GOD BLESS u and that precious baby
2007-01-17 05:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by goober 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
let me start by saying this..any mention of abortion here will give you all sorts of grief and nasty, closed minded answers. I am pro choice. That means YOU , the woman, gets to make the choices that she decides are best for her. Everytime you have sex you run the risk of a pregnancy. If a man is a willing partner then he MUST understand the risks involved. He can not decide for you...if you decide to h ave the baby then he must legaly take responsibility.
This is the reason why people should be more cautious about sex. Some people blame their religious beliefs....but the outcome is the same. Sex can always lead to pregnancy- and if you are going to have sex then you must be able to understand the consequences and the responsibility. Sex is for reproduction ( according to our species) even though it is pleaseurable - it's mean for conception......... not just "getting off"
If everyone understood this better in the beginning there would be alot less unwanted babies.
2007-01-17 04:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by jachooz 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally I don't think I could bring myself to have an abortion, and if you don't think it's right, then don't have the abortion. But when that baby is born, let him sign over his parental rights.
Also, I'd start looking into adoption agencies. It's hard to raise a baby on your own (and I assume you're still a teenager, which makes it even harder), and there are plenty of couples out there that would LOVE to help you.
2007-01-17 04:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by luvablelds 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. That just means the guy doesn't want any responsibility of the baby. Having a baby is so worth it. Just to see your baby on an ultrasound makes you think, "How can anyone get an abortion knowing that this little person is growing inside of you."
2007-01-17 07:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Brandie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do what is right for you. Yes you created the baby together but it is essentially your decision. You do have to consider what he is saying though. He obviously is saying he is NOT into having a baby right now...so his physical help on the situation may not be much if any. You just need to know that you will most likely be going it alone but if you feel that is ok that you want this baby and that is what feels right for you then go for it. If he doesn't want to be a part of it then just go for your child support and be the best mom you can be =) good luck
2007-01-17 05:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by kora_tori 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever feels right to you. If it feels wrong then don't do it. You are not a murderer if you have an abortion. Sometimes the hardest thing you have to do is also the right thing to do. This is such a touchy subject for people. But do whatever your heart tells you. And don't think that if he won't be there for you that you can't take care of it on your own. Don't let that influence your decision!
2007-01-17 05:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by sassygirliegirl27 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't have time to sit here & type a big long list of reasons why you are WRONG on so many levels about abortion & adoption, I suggest that you read Scarlet Roses responce thoughly & completely. I think she said everything best. & for the record, if you are too dumb to spell or type properly, it is my opinion that stupid people like you should not be allowed to reproduce & multipy. There are too many stupid people in the world already, including you, so why should we allow you to make copies of idiots like yourself? In your long, rambling, incoherent overview, not only are you supporting the rape of innocent young women, you are also promoting the rape of the entire English language. Go back to school & get an education of your own before you start going around trying to "educate" others with your junk-politics!
2016-05-24 00:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i guy cant make up my decision just cuz he made a HUGE mistake into gettin me pregnant...if i was raped then yes that would probably be the ONLY time i would get an abortion cuz how hard would that be to tell ur child that their daddy raped their mommy and u have no idea where he is right now.....but no NEVER an abortion for a dumb guy like that!!! he shouldnt have had sex with u if he couldnt face the consequence!
2007-01-17 05:21:58 · answer #11 · answered by cuteshowgrl01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋