2007-01-17 04:33:39 · 30 answers · asked by Wish 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
the pain it caused you
2007-01-17 04:35:39 · update #1
There was one, but I was seventeen so I'm not sure what you could call it, that for a while I wished I could go back and erase, but honestly now that I'm older I can say that I'd never go and change it. One of the big reasons being that I wrote some of my best poetry stemming from that heartache, and also because after a few years he turned out to be a pretty decent friend. I don't talk to him often, but when I finally did contact him after a few years, he remembered me fondly, and that's all I'd hoped for. When all is said and done, I wouldn't change one single thing about my life because everything I've done (especially in my love life!) has made me the person I am today, and I like me :)
2007-01-17 06:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. It was my first relationship right after high school. We had a nice relationship for about a year, and then it turned sour. She would use, cheat and abuse me for the following two years after the first blissful was gone. I was just a fool during those last two years thinking that she was the one. I was in my 4th year of college majoring in Psychology as well. Finally, all hell broke loose, and the relationship was over. I was decimated simply because her family loved me, and even after the relationship was over the father told me that I was too good for her daughter and that he would miss me...a lot. Yes, we bonded. Anyways, yes it was painful, and the reason why I had trust issues and remained single for 6 years after that relationship. I stopped my psych major afterwards as well because the plan was for me follow this career and be with her. Afterwards, I didn't want anything around me that reminded me of her...including my career path. I even offers...and I turned them all down. However, during those years of turmoil and depression, I found out that psychology was not my calling, and I would not be the person that I am today. I like the 'me' now, and that experience contributes a lot towards who I am today. In other words, the person that you know and love now...would not be the same person darling. ; ) So, I would not go back and change a thing.
2007-01-17 04:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Never had an affair, but got intimate with a married woman once. And there were lot of problems between us after that, but if I had to go back in time & try avoiding that? HELL NO! I would have loved to bang her & suck her out even more!!!
2007-01-17 04:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah completely....
I was just starting a new relationship after my ex had moved away and left me and I wasn't quite over him yet. This new guy was great and we got along perfectly, we've had everything in common, and were hot in bed and fell in love fast.
My ex called one day after 4 months and told me he needed my help (rehab) and he wanted me to go to the state he moved to and help him for a few days. And as I told him I'd always be there for him I said I would go. My new bf was worried but I told him nothing would happen as my ex was supposed to be in a facility and I was just going to be staying at his place taking care of things and visiting him during visiting hours.
Well right before I flew out, I found out he never checked into a center and was at home. I hadn't seen him in 4 months and I thought he still needed my help so I went anyway. Complete bad idea but I told myself that he needed my help and I couldn't refund the airfare, and alot of other excusses.
During my 4 days there we slept together. It was a total mistake, my new bf was such a better guy and we were perfect together. My ex was a bad boy and I knew we could never really work out.
Well when I got home, my bf asked if we did and I couldn't lie. It was bad. We've tried to work it out for 3 years now and we fight constantly. I wish we could get back to the perfect existance we had before I cheated but it'll never be the same.
2007-01-17 05:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by truth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah there was one. I went to Cancun for spring break back in 2000 and had a little too much fun. Not going to blame anyone but myself for what I did, but I really think my friend(so-called) didn't have to tell my then girlfriend behind my back what I had done either.
Rum shots sweets!
2007-01-17 04:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because if I did I won't of experienced what it was like to fall in love for the first time and its like the saying goes "It's better to have loved and loss then not to have loved at all." I learned from it and I'm glad I did.
2007-01-17 04:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I always took valuable lessons from those relationships. The pain is gone and I am glad that I know what I do now.
2007-01-17 04:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I can think of 3 of em. But its too late now to cry over spilt milk. My motto is what doesnt kill u makes u stronger. If I learned from my mistakes then it was worthwhile.
2007-01-17 04:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♀_♥₤ẩϋřą♥_♂ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Layla you are so sassy to Grasssy
Sometimes I say Yes, and then I say hey if you had not done it you would not have had the beautiful consequences.
It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Love your querstion, beautiful
2007-01-18 00:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw. The pain made Dragon stronger and helped her realize what she wanted and didn't want from a partner.
2007-01-17 04:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by VLIGER DRAGÖN 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋