I feel like really am bisexual...I find certain women and certain men equally arousing...but some people say you can't have it both ways, you're either straight or gay. I don't think I can choose either...
2007-01-17 03:38:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, you can be whatever, or whomever you want...pretty much.
2007-01-17 03:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am bisexual and yes you can be equally attracted to both sexes. It has nothing to do with being greedy or not able to choose. It's just the way you are just like someone is either gay or straight.
2007-01-17 03:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely, you can be bisexual, and people who say otherwise have a real lack of imagination. I've been 50/50 all my life. You don't have to choose. Over the past few years, I've even found that being openly bi is a really good way to screen out creeps.
2007-01-17 03:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone is essentially bi-sexual. It's just a matter of percentage. For example: I feel like I am 80% straight - 20% gay. Someone else maybe 99% straight and 1% gay.
2007-01-17 03:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Bisexuality is a real, valid sexual orientation. Anyone who says you're greedy, indecisive, 'in a phase', etc. is wrong- bisexuality exists. You can't choose to be attracted to one or the other anymore than gays or straights can change their attraction.
Take heart, and be proud in your bisexuality!
2007-01-17 04:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have intimacies with both males and females and you do not ever go with just one, then YES you are bisexual. If you ever have a committed relationship to one or the other, then you are no longer bi. ("Bi" means TWO). Feelings are not enough to define you as anything. It has more to do with how you live. It's about action - not attraction. Until you actually take action, it doesn't really count. Those of you who disagree should look at this for what it is. If you like something but you don't engage in it, then you cannot call yourself that until you do. It is really simple.
2007-01-17 03:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You don't have to choose hunny...that's the glorious thing about America. You can be attracted to women as well as men and who is anyone else to tell you that you can't define yourself as a bisexual? You are what YOU think you are, and forget those who tell you that you can't.
2007-01-17 03:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am attracted to men more than i am attracted to women but i am attracted to women as well. I do want it both ways. i like men for their strength and that one thing that women don't have. I like women because of the emotional conection i get from them but i don't think anyone should have to chose. it's your life and you have to live it. It isn't up to anyone else to deside what happens in your bed. if you are comfertable then do it if not then don't but life is too short for you to have it dictated to you. enjoy being you and have a good day :)
2007-01-17 03:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by kaluah96 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm bi and that i'm getting anxious round women folk too--besides the undeniable fact that it truly is a sturdy type of anxious :) each so often that alerts an excellent better charm. yet there is no longer only gay/instantly/bi, there is an entire spectrum (no terrible pun meant). concentration a lot less on installation into one type and be with whoever makes you chuffed.
2016-11-24 23:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's possible to feel attraction to either or both sex. I believe that it all comes down to personality connection and having all the "pieces" of a relationship fit into place.
2007-01-17 03:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Dani 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people are idiots.
Just because they don't feel attracted to more than one gender they assume everyone else is the same. I really myopic point of view.
You are who you are. Ignore the fools and just live your life.
2007-01-17 03:52:44 · answer #11 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋