i keep falling in what i think is love but may be obcession. I came out of a 10 year relationship last year and have discovered that im not sure if i ever loved him but was definately infatuated with him to the obcessive point ie wouldnt let him do his own thing always calling his cell phone etc. Met this new guy (who was perfect in every way) and id didnt work and I am convinced i have fallen for him and he is the one that got away.....he doesnt know how i feel but i did tell him i wanted to get serious and he didnt. what is wrong with me and how can i get this new man out of my head and move on with my life...?
2007-01-17 02:32:26 · 4 answers · asked by akaj 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Build up confidence in your self. You have to make yourself happy before anyone else can make you happy. It is not hard to fall in love with someone especially i f you like to adore people for so many different ways. And at times you may think you love them but you don't. Life is not easy. We all make mistakes especially when it comes to relationships. I don't think you should be hard yourself. You will find that person to even out the flow. Don't go searching that person will walk right into you and you may not even know it at that ime.
2007-01-17 02:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jamonican 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself for who you are. I know that sounds like a bunch of crap but I was in a 10 year relationship and I realized that I loved him but I was never in love with him. I then cheated on him the last 3 years of the relationship with his best friend and we fell mad deeply in love but it was for the wrong reasons and now that I am on my own I realized that no one can love me like I can and at the end of the day it is only you who is responsible for yourself and your actions!
2007-01-17 02:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By spending more time with yourself! Learn to love yourself more...then ask yourself next time your faced with fate or obssesion...How can i love someone else, if i dont love myself!!!
2007-01-17 02:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Simple1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"A man and/or women that has patience can have what he/she wants"
2007-01-17 02:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋