2007-01-17 02:25:58 · 15 answers · asked by Char 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES
get a life and get a friend with benefits. life goes on
2007-01-17 02:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes women do take back their unfaithful husband for family sake. Each women has their own set of circumstances, as why the do.
2007-01-17 02:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason women always seem to think they are doing there kids a favor by putting up with an man that is no good. If you have a son that will teach him how to treat woman. If you have a daughter your teaching her how to let a man treat her. Kids are alot smarter than we give them credit. They know whats going on. So you decided how you want your kids life to turn out
2007-01-17 02:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by tall_slimm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes how does taking back someone help if you are fighting. What does that do for the family. Kids see and hear everything and especially what you think they don't. Unless counseling is involved and love is deep there is no reason to do that. You would be hurting the family more than helping.
2007-01-17 03:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS A WOMAN FOOLISH WILL THAT WOULD BE A HARD THING TO SAY BECAUSE THOSE THINGS ARE THE THINGS OF THE HEART! IF YOU ARE TAKING THIS PERSON BACK BECAUSE OF LOVE AND BECAUSE YOU BELEIVE IN YOUR HEART TO GIVE HIM THAT CHANGE THEN WHAT WE SAY WON'T REALLY MATTER. BUT IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A GO REASON TO TAKE HIM BACK THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BECAUSE THEN THE LOVE ISN'T REALLY THEIR ANYMORE AND YOU ARE DOING IT FOR THE WRONG REASON. AND IF YOU ARE TAKING HIM BACK FOR KIDS WELL THE KIDS WILL LATER FELL BAD THAT YOU DID THIS FOR THEM. YOIU AND YOUR FAMILY FELL YOUR PAIN SO YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT THAT WHEN YOU ARE DOING THING IN YOUR LIFE. YOUR HUSBAND MOST LIKLY WILL ALWAYS BE HIM AND DO WHAT HE DOES AND IF YOU DO TAKE HIM BACK THEN HE WILL THINK THAT IT'S OKAY TO DO AGAIN. BUT THEN YOU ALSO HAVE TO THINK YOU MOST HAVE TRUST IN EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE FOR ANYTHING TO WORK AND YOU TWO DON'T. AND ARE YOU EVEN IN LOVE WITH HIM ANYMORE YOU MAY LOVE HIM BUT ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH HIM!
2007-01-17 02:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I feel you can do bad by yourself. What images are you teaching your children when it comes to a healthy relationship between a husband and wife. If you have sons? Are you teaching them it's okay to have a wife and assist in giving her a low self image of herself, because you want to have other women on the side? Or if you have girls? Are you teaching them; lower your self esteem so that your husband, who has commited to you and only you, can go out and sleep with other women jeopardizing your well being and your health? That's wrong to do that to kids.
2007-01-17 02:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never do that, but, I have seen other women take the idiot back. They are not going to learn until the husband brings an STD home to the family.
2007-01-17 02:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only reason she's taking him back is because of the kids, and not because SHE wants to do it.. then yes it is foolish. It will just ulitmately make both their lives miserable, and the kids will be right their to see it.
2007-01-17 02:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by CEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she is. The guy is silently laughing in your face and the kids will think this is the way to treat a woman. Once a cheater, always a cheater. They are no good.
2007-01-17 04:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foolish...stupid...whatever.
2007-01-17 02:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is so old! Only you, Only you, Only you can decide this. Get out a paper and pencil, make a list of pros and cons and decide. This is not only about you or your husband, but the kids as well. I bet though you will be wondering each time he leaves, where is he going, who is he with..Is all this worth that agony. I don't advocate the disolvement of any marriage, but please honey....
2007-01-17 02:38:27 · answer #11 · answered by notnew2U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋