we are married but my wife wants to hang out with friends.sometimes until late?

Question

my wife and i have been married for 2 months. she moved to a different state because of school and i remained back because of work.we do talk over the phone everyday but she wants to hang out with friends. last time when i visited her we had an argument and she called her parents who live an hour away and her parents came and took me to the airport thinking that i was mistreating their daughter and the argument was that i tried to clean the kitchen and the bathroom which looked horrible and she thought i was degrading her. secondly, she does not want me to tell her where she is wrong especially the way she drives scares me because he doesnt use all the mirrors and when i tell her about it, it turns to be a fight. i do love her though. we are from different races. when we argue we solve the problem but when someting comes up she brings up the past while i dont bring whatever she did to me from the past because i believe that marriage is all about forgiving and forgeting. so please help

Answer 1

ITs just that she used the way she does when you are not around. Once you visit, you cant change her the way she comfort with. You married her, means you have to accept who she is.

Answer 2

You need an annulment. You shouldn't be fighting this early on. I think you guys took what you considered the only option and that was marriage. If that isn't an option you both need counseling and the parents need to butt out.