i moved to another city, i dont know any1 but i thought it would be a great chalenge in my life as i was bored. i got myself a house an it's great really cosy, next i got myself a job.... it's ok. the ppl are really nice but i dont feel i fit in anywhere. i'm a really outgoing person very friendly but how can i fit in better ???? i dont wanna give up and move back home i wanna stay here but it's lonely with no1 else!!
2007-01-17 01:27:44 · 22 answers · asked by starbrite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Starlite Starbright, first Star I see tonight , wish I may wish I might help today for Starbright.
How about this for some chippers. )))))))))))) (Loudly)
You know what you want, but your not sure how to get there and you know what you have, but don't want to leave it behind you.
It appears to me that your caught in a catch 22.
The best way to solve that is to choose what path is the best for you to take regardless of who gets Starbright.
Starbright can stay, but would that make it right?
Would that help?
Where you go that will help you seek your goals is the most important decision for you to make in a catch 22 situation. Do you know what catch22 means?
You'll figure it out because your going through it right now.
I suggest for Strabright to take a couple of weeks off and chill out. GO to the park and look at some Ducks and stare accross the water of a lake and just sit down and look up in the sky and say to yourself, I need to make the right choice here can you help me.
Thats all you have to say and I assure you that the path will open a gate for you. trust me on this!
You have recieved a blessing today!
2007-01-17 01:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a myspace account. I know it sounds stupid, but there are BILLIONS of people on there, and you can search for people locally and then chat with them and see about going out. Its an easy way to make friends and meet new people. I have lived in the same city now for 25 years, and when I got a myspace acct, I made about 60 new friends in the first year... Not just friends that are on my acct, but people I actually talk to in person and know in real life now. Its been alot of fun. Im very outgoing as well, so it was easy for me to make friends. Dont give up. Good luck
PS: Its 100% FREE!!
2007-01-17 01:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time to make friends, y not join a club or a gym where u can meet new ppl, dont give up uv come this far, hang in there and it will all fit into place. xx
2007-01-17 01:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to start getting out more. You don't have to have a group of friends to get out of your house. There has to be somebody at work you can begin a friendship with and that will allow you to meet people and develop a life outside work. Don't give up especially since you like it there.
2007-01-17 01:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always tough moving to a new place. The suggestions about throwing a housewarming party are great. Do you have any hobbies for which there are local clubs that you could join? Maybe you could even start one yourself?
2007-01-17 01:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by hannah w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At work you might get involved more with the coworkers and ask them what there is to do that interest you and invite them alone..
You could also try volunteering in something you enjoy....
Check out all the community attractions and maybe call your chamber of commence...
Check out your neighbors.... Introduce yourself..(yet be careful and cautious)
I wish you the best....remember keep your chin up~
2007-01-17 01:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay possitive dont try and change who u r to fit in, people dont know u very well and that can somtimes make thing move a bit slower give them a little more time and see what happens be urself and let people see u for who u r. goodluck.
2007-01-17 01:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by wiccawoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a big challenge to come this far, dont give up yet give it some time but dont make your self miserable.
If you are outgoing and friendly you dont need to do anything to fit in just be yourself, it takes time to build friendships.
good luck x
2007-01-17 01:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you invite some of your new workmates for an evening round at yours - provide nibbles and booze and suggest going out for a Friday night bash the following week.
2007-01-17 01:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by Carrot Cruncher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it takes time!
Try inviting some of the people you work with to a small house warming party/drink/meal!
Invite your boss first - it makes the others think that if they are going it must be allright!
2007-01-17 01:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋