I am a born again christian with an abusive husband when drank and kind when sobber. this disturbs my faith. Help me help him understand how wonderful I feel when the Holy Spirit finds peace in my heart when he is sobber and kind.
2007-01-17 01:24:33 · 9 answers · asked by kikie56flo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately you cannot make him believe anything he don't want to. He needs to find himself and understand what is wrong and how to overcome it. The best thing for him to do is attend AA meetings and get counseling.
If you feel you are in serious danger, girl, you need to stand up for yourself and either kick him out or leave him if he continues. He needs to admit to himself he has a problem, if he don't, he won't do anything about it...if he does and understand it is wrong, then he will get the help.
Been there...Done that..You can only do so much to help him...HE needs to help himself.
If he is into practicing the same religion as you, he will attend services.
Just pray for him and advise him to seek help.
2007-01-17 01:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Trese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the heck are a bunch of strangers on the Internet gonna help you out? Personally I think the Bible is made up kaka created by Kings to take control over their countries by putting the fear of God in everyone.
2007-01-17 02:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get him into a program such as alcoholics anonymous for the drinking but as far as the abuse, let your faith support you and consider if the abuse is too bad whether you want to leave him. I do not believe God means us to suffer abuse at the hands of another person married or not!!
2007-01-17 01:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're joking right? I think you need to get yourself (for taking this abuse and your odd beliefs) and your husband (for having a drinking problem) into some therapy. Have some with just you and the therapist and some with your husbad after he goes to rehab. Do an intervention. Get realistic.
2007-01-17 01:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you aren't going to like this, but the bible is mythology. It is fiction made up by man.
You've (and maybe he to) been fed a fairytale.
Get real, and maybe you have a chance at living a reality based life.
Otherwise... pretend yourself to a state of happiness.
2007-01-17 01:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband must first help himself, there is a saying, " God helps those who help themselves " He will not be able to understand the Bible, until he understands himself. He has to get professionial help!
2007-01-17 01:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh..i donn think it has something to do with your faith..leave him..os juss stick to him when hes not drunk..or wait for him to be kind,when sobber..tsk,tsk,tsk,...i think your hub needs to understand his self,before you help him understand the bible..or whatsoever..
2007-01-17 01:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by spike 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first you;ll need to have your husband willing to learn and understand the word of god--------go to ---www.tomorrowsworld.org
you will find lots of good material here to help you both.
good luck and God be with you .
2007-01-17 01:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋