Ok...Im supposed to be 2 and a half weeks pregnant! Though I dont know what to do,should I keep it or kill it

Question

My baby's father is acceptional; he's willing. I'm just not to sure of what my folks will think!!!!! I mean he says he loves me, but I don't hear it! He says he will not leave me if I am but I dont believe him....what should I do/

Answer 1

You are using the words "kill it" kill meaning you understand that the baby is alive, you love this child whether or not you know it and would regret it for the rest of your life if you killed this child. You don't need the man there, he sounds good to me but so what if he leaves you in the end, you will have a child who will love you unconditionally and will never leave-nothing can beat that. Who gives a rat's a** about your parents, it is your life and they will just have to understand. Good Luck

Answer 2

Hello,
First Of All Don't Kill An Innocent Baby!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry To Say This But....You Should Have Protected Yourself...I Am A Mother Of 4 And Due Any Day Now!!
Honey, Don't Worry About What Others Think!! What Do You Want??? Just Don't Kill Your Sweet Baby..If You Are Not Ready There Are Other Things To Do Besides Have An Abortion!!!
There Are Millions Of People Who Would Give Thier Life Just To Have A Baby!!! Adoption Is The Best If You Are Not Ready To Be A Mom...As For Your Boyfriend Thats Another Story....I Know How Hard It Is To Be Alone! If He Leaves You Then He Never Cared!! Just Remember Actions Speak Louder Than Words..
Give Him Time,He Maybe Just As Scared As You Or Even More!!! Sweet Heart I Wish You The Best Of Luck And Hope To Hear You Had Your Baby Or Put It Up for Adoption. Keep In Touch!! Lots Of Love....

Answer 3

Many states now have this thing that if you really don't want to have the child you can go to any like hospital, doctor clinic, or anywhere safe and just drop the child off and tell them your the mother and do not want the child. You don't have to go through the adoption process or anything. No questions asked, however they do like to know a little bit of medical history, so they know about the child, but you don't have to give them your name or anything. Last I knew, this legislation was past in every state but 3. The only one I can remember of those 3 however is Nebraska.

There are so many people who try to get pregnant and can't. A child is so beautiful, don't take the child's life away because you aren't sure if you're straight with yours, try giving someone else a chance to be parents. And who knows, as you progress, you might decide you want to keep it for yourself! Either way, good luck!

Answer 4

First of all I think you need to retest.....not sure you can even know when you are only 2 1/2 weeks. Haveing an abortion(although it is your choice) is not the best option. There are many loving people out there that can't have their own children that would love to care for and love your child. I think maybe you should go and see a couselor about this before making any decisions that you will regret later on in life.

Answer 5

Is the real issue age? If he's willing to stand by you and you love him take it as a blessing. I got pregnant at 18. My parents hated it, mom kicked me out. But my man stood by me. Our relationship faded, but we stayed awesome friends. My daughter is now 4 and she is the best thing I have ever accomplished in life. They make you feel like the rest of the world doesn't matter any more. I guess worst case you could carry the baby to term and give it to a loving couple that can't do so. You'll have less regrets this way. It's an amazing thing becoming a parent it makes you look at the world in a whole new light!

Answer 6

First of all it is OK to be scared. It is a very big deal to have a baby. You are worried about disappointing your family, about being ready,and about how this could affect your future; That's OK. Whatever you do, take that decision when you are in a calm and collected state of mind. Now I don't think that an abortion is the solution,it could be traumatic and you may never forgive yourself. You could bring so much happiness in a childless person life with open adoption or regular adoption if you prefer. Your family will love you no matter what. They might get hurt or disappointed but you will always be their baby.
Be strong , everything will be OK.

Answer 7

First of all how old are you? If you are over 18 dont worry about your parents will think. That "it" growing inside you is a human being that you created - it is a part of you. if you are not prepared to have a child maybe you should look into adoption or something like that. abortion is not an option it is murder. will you be able to live with yourself everyday knowing that you murdered your own child? you need to sit down and really think about this especially if the babies father is willing to ba a part of this childs life. good luck to you and your baby!!

Answer 8

You must mean 4 1/2 weeks pregnant. You wouldn't know you were pregnant if you were 2 1/2 weeks. You are 1 week pregnant when you have your period.....at least that's the way the doctors figure it.

Answer 9

Research it on the web go to http://www.nrlc.org/abortion/pba/ and http://www.partial-birth.com/ I did a research paper on abortion because I had a sister thinking about having one and we talked her out of it and now her daughter is 18 and graduates this year. But i can tell you all kids of stories and tell you people out there are willing to adopt all day long but until you research it yourself you will not be able to make a informed decision. i wish you all the luck and please try to talk to your parents before making this decision. I noticed that alot of people want to know if you are mature enough to be a mother well i think people will adapt and overcome any situation. so please don't make a decision like this on if I'm mature enough there is alot of people who people thought would make great parents and turn out to be bad ones so its all about you and how you and not how your parents are and everyone eles you will be your own person and be a great parent. don't get me wrong it will be hard but worth it to see them take their first step and say their first words, first day of school.

Answer 10

How old are you and how responsible are you. I am generally opposed to abortion. I don't know you, but just by what you have written I think that the world might be better off with out you raising a child in it.