1. I mean having him as a boyfriend and consider a serious relationship with him?
2. Can anyone tell me the pros and cons?
3. Are divorced men looking for sex only?
2007-01-17 00:47:44 · 26 answers · asked by comet10nis_star 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Maybe a few years in the future I would,but not right now sense I'm only 25 w/ 2 young kids of my own,I think it would just be complicated.Plus you will always be on a back burner b/c his kids come first,dating would be one thing but I would hold off on a serious relationship!
2007-01-17 00:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it all depends. If the kids are living with him? No. Some women at a certain age don't want to go through the kid thing again. And not all divorced men are looking for sex only. And not a good idea to try starting a serious relationship with a recent divorced man. They are in the early stages of being single again and it can be confusing for them. They have too much on their plate to deal with after a divorce.
Take care.
2007-01-17 01:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because the man is divorced does not make him not boyfriend material. For me it would depend on a variety of factors. Such as, how he treated me/others, if he is bitter over the divorce/ex wife, how he treats his/my children, if he spends quality time with his children, and more.
The pro/cons depends on much of the above reasons. Some divorced men learn how to treat/keep the next love in his life differently and that at times is a plus.
No not all divorced men are just looking for sex. Those who rely are looking for a serious relationship that may lead to marriage are hard to find.
2007-01-17 00:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by nmd_elkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would providing that they lived most of the time with the mother. I love children I wouldn't mind spending a weekend with them. The pros are you get to be involved with him a lot more if he shares his children with you. Also you get to be involved with the children as well. Be a family so to speak. The cons are sometimes it is difficult for children to see the one who "made their daddy leave." Though this may not be true it is seen in a child's eyes so definitely there has to be some bonding that takes place. Remember you are not their mother so don't try to be bossy. You can say things to them regarding your house and living places and have a say but if you meddle to much with them expect a "you are not my mother you can't tell me what to do attitude." Are divorced men looking just for sex? If they introduce you to their children that is a sign that they are looking for something more than sex. Each one varies. Sometimes after being in a long relationship with someone the last thing they want to do is have another long relationship. That's mostly in the beginning. After a few years of being lonely they may decide upon starting in a new relationshipl However, that varies depending upon the person.
2007-01-17 00:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider a relationship with a divorced man but not a divorced man with 3 kids!
Pros--well, he's not a virgin anyway!
con--dealing with his kids and having them feel the need to remind you that 'you arent their mother!'
I don't know if ALL divorced men just want sex..that's hard to answer without knowing him.
2007-01-17 00:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Just me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider any man that was kind and loving - there are men out there who just want sex but they are not just the divorced ones and not all divorced ones are like that - however I cant consider anyone cos I am lucky to be happily married
2007-01-17 00:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means consider him if you also feel something for him.
One advantage of a relationship with him is that he is experienced about having children and may have learned from his previous relationship. A disadvantage is that you have to share time with his children and that you have to make allowances as there would be times when he seems to put his children above you. You have to make compromises then in order for the relationship to work.
I don't think divorced men are looking for sex only unless they are severely disillusioned by their previous relationship.
2007-01-17 00:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by woman in the well 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old are your kids depends upon the person. I would But only if the children are grown i have a son and i've raised him and i don't want any more kids But thats just me theres women out there that i think would so don't loose hope good luck i do have a lot of respect for Any Man raising kids on his own
2007-01-17 00:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Leveler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to consider that the man comes with a lot of baggage with 3 kids and a x wife to deal with he better be worth it.
I don't think he would be only looking for sex, but be care full his not looking for a baby sitter.
2007-01-17 00:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a divorced man with 3 kids is more mature, family oriented, and is not out for just sex...I mean, give him a chance....
2007-01-17 00:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋