I know this guy 4 the past 6 months..we worked in a same compny, but diff offices..we came to know each other sumhow n bcame gud frnds..b4 a month he left to another place for work..till that time, whom i thought to be as my frnd,started ruling my senses n i realised i started missing him..we were not spending much time together when he was here, but still I missed him very much after he moved off..my problem is that, i'm not able to infer if he too feels the same for me..his frequency of calling me has increased to a small level, and his tone is a bit sweeter when he msgs me..if i'm not mailing him for 4 hours, 5th hour he'll mail me askin "where r u"..i have another frnd in boys, but when i talk abt him to my guy, i cud very well hear a possessive tone..he skips to another topic..i've fully fallen for him..there's a no minute that I dint thnk of him.But i'm very scared to even give a clue to him tat i like him,'coz i cannot stand rejection in his words..help me guys!does he love me?
2007-01-17 00:19:56 · 22 answers · asked by Cherry_Raph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also tell me an idea as to how to get words from him without me telling him expicitly....
2007-01-17 03:58:24 · update #1
I don't know about love, but he definitely likes you.
You have two choices. You can ask him out or lose him forever.
Remember, he doesn't work with you anymore. If he likes you and he thinks you don't like him, it's GOOD-BYE!
Don't be afraid. If you want him, just do it.
2007-01-17 00:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, honestly speaking just wait n watch for some more time.I'll give you some points to test that guy but before that you have to make sure that you really love him its just not an infatuation. I know when you love somebody from the deepest core of your heart...and when u express it and the rejection comes. You stand nowwhere other than bursting into tears. For the girls its more difficult becuase they're bit of emotional fools too. I think all the girls are like scorpio men......they are lot emotional then the other crowd around you. If they love somebody their love is so intense and pure that you'll be violently drawn towards that. But If they don't love you they just don't love you and you can do nothing to change their feeling towards it. I mean no second thoughts etc. I guess Im moving bit away from the question you asked.......
So, If you really love that guy and its just not infatuation or physical attraction (although that too counts a bit to fall for somebody).....then you should follow what I say. Coz, I don't want you to get hurt.....I know it pains and its difficult to get out of it.
Now, next steps are based on my assumptions that you really love him.....
Make sure that he loves you and cares for you. Is he looking for love or lust??? Perhaps he may be looking for only sex partner.....and as you know him he thought he would better try on you first. To judge on this better be friends with some of his close friends.....and ask what type of person is he...is he flirt or something.It will take bit time but will also make sure that you dont fall for a wrong person.
Now, when you have gotten the things that he's not flirt types...next step is to see whether he loves you or not and how strong is he if your relation goes till marraige.
To really test if he really loves you....the first thing is stop contacting him for sometime. If he really misses you and tries to contact you badly.....he's mad for you. Sometime plan to go to his office.......at lunch time say him that you came to his office for some work. Ask him how about going for lunch together as you are the only person you know in this office. Go for lunch together....... Now get the body signals......if he tries to touch you n all....wanna be close to you wanna feel you around. Looks in your eyes sometime at the same time feeling bit shy too........he's the guy. Then if all this comes out to be good.....then plan a movie with him....a romantic english movie. In the middle of the movie......you say you feel bit sleepy but dont wanna go home till the movie ends. Ask him that you wanna take a nap for a while but feeling a bit pain in your neck. Hope I could get a pillow. Now.....if he offers his shoulder to rest. The time has come......Lean on his shoulder for some time.....and ask him direclty that if he loves you and how about if our relation goes till marraige. If he's pretty sure about his answers.......then fall for him. Otherwise, If he says that he hasn't thought for marraige and all then he's fooling. You too may not be looking for marraige at this stage but its right to ask because it shows the truthfulnmess in relation.
Let me know how it goes......then will let you know next steps. Excuse me for grammar or spellings i dont bother while writing.
2007-01-17 12:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by GK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever is happening now is all correct....let it be going on like this.
you know one thing..although its a old thought, this will be true for always that "boys should always give first proposal"
let your talks be more frequent...and enjoy the time. he will definitely tell you probably after a month and that moment will be happiest for you.
this is sure that he loves you and will never rejects you
regards
2007-01-25 06:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by rajesh y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to walk in front of him and ask him all about u think about him and u can get positive reply as u are positive and and u just feel free from this ok try and tell
dont waist your time work quick becoz li
2007-01-17 08:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by RAVI KUMAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh !! u kno wat iwas in da same situation few years ago and now i repent my actions as we are not together today.this is because i din tell him da feelings i had for him.my guy acted just like your guy,u kno phone calls ,possiveness etc..i was not sure if he fealt da same way.though there were these signs tht he threw indicatn feelings for me.But i did not reveal myself even a bit..and therefore he has now found someone else...so wat i'm tryin 2 say is plss dont make a delay tell him waht u feel as fast as possible,i 'm sure he wud give u a +ve reply,he might even be extremly happy 2 hear that u've fallen 4 him,trust me..plss tell him fast....go now...all da best....
2007-01-25 08:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship is more sweeter than love.
without love there is no friendship.
"I LOVE U " is not at all the judgement to ur friendship.
Don't think about this. Keep ur friendship with him.
don't search for love , enjoy his friendship.
2007-01-20 13:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go n tell him....dont b afraid of rejection......u know at the end atleast u tried ...otherwise u will not b able to decide anything bout ur life...go dear
2007-01-17 09:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Celine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Ask Him.
2007-01-25 01:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by anand singla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask someone 2 ask him
that had happen 2 me before tis guy i like hm so i ask one of his friends 2ask himif he liks me and he said yes we wentout for 1week andthen broke up
2007-01-22 08:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey my dear
if u do love than y r u scared?; u should not be scared, and u have to ask him whether he loves u or not but before doing this u have to tell him that u love him.
2007-01-25 07:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by moon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋