i cannot take this anymore. Everytime my parents talk to each other, they end up quarrelling. Dad likes to slap mum and mum always throwing things at him. Frankly, ive no respect for them anymore. If they dont love each other anymore, why cant they just divorce? i cannot concentrate on my studies and constantly have to manage with my angry emotion. Sometimes, i do think of ending this life... Im sad.. please give me some advice
2007-01-17 00:15:37 · 18 answers · asked by cruizediamond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i cannot take this anymore. Everytime my parents talk to each other, they end up quarrelling. Dad likes to slap mum and mum always throwing things at him. Frankly, ive no respect for them anymore. If they dont love each other anymore, why cant they just divorce? i cannot concentrate on my studies and constantly have to manage with my angry emotion. Sometimes, i do think of ending this life... Im sad.. please give me some advices that can soothe my feelings right now. and i mean constructive long advices..
2007-01-17 00:38:24 · update #1
First of all, dont end your life because of them. Your still young and have alot to live for. Tell your parents that their quarreling bothers you and you cant concentrate on your work. Ask if theres a relative that you can stay with until they can fix their problem. I bet that will make them think. Try not to be sad,.. theres plenty of nice people on here that can help you. Please dont listen to the nasty people, only the good ones. I hope you can straighten this out. Please let us know how this turns out. I'll be anxious to hear. Good luck and cheer up!
2007-01-17 00:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by pebbles 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋
you need to call the police the next time your father hit your mom no one has the right to hit any person this way you dad we get the help he need and its will give her a break as while also you need to seek out some help for your self end your life is so sad i know i felt the same way when i was grow up i would wish i was died but life do get better i now have two great kids that always say how much they love me its make the whole day better hang in there good luck
2007-01-17 01:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i grew up in a house where my father was an absolute *** hole, when i was old enough i left and now i have a beautiful home of my own and a wonderful marriage because i chose good thing for myself. when they fight just put head phones on soothing music for your angry emotions and they will pass. have a talk to your mum and tell her to move on for the better health of everyone. life is very sad but when you say t god there has to be something better than this He will answer you many years later just keep strong and make sure when you get much older that you get the best you deserve because YOU deserve good. keep smiling kid.
2007-01-17 02:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by joey 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
properly, I had a marginally abusive father. although the biggest sadness got here after I went to make certain him after two decades and he refused to talk about what got here about even as i became turning out to be up. He stated what's previous continues to be previous, yet i needed to make certain if he regretted the abuse, from his attitude I accumulated that he did not. that became 10 years in the past(i'm 55).
2016-10-15 08:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents contastly fight and it is tiring. I feel the same way you do. I do not what to do, try and look past it, Maybe tell your mother what your feeling, or whatever parent you favored at one point in time. They may not show they love each other, But they do, Maybe their love is just slowly falling apart.. It happens. Hell, the divorce rate is up too almost 50% or more, (Cannot remember)
2007-01-17 01:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kataxenna 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why would you end your life for something that your parents do? Does there fighting end up in you getting hit? If not then tell them to take it outside. For you to want to end your life over something like that what are you gonna do when something big comes into your life. Go see a therapist.()
2007-01-17 00:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's a tough situation for you but don't think or try to do silly things like ending life.....
Try to be brave and face the situation and if possible communicate them seperately that you are disturbed with this. If they love you and care about you then they must stop this alteast for a while.
2007-01-17 00:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Make them move out of your house.
2007-01-17 00:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to each parent separately and tell them what you mentioned here. Let them know how much it upsets you. Ask them to plan a way to stop fighting at home.
2007-01-17 00:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You need to tell your parents what you just told us. If they can't see it maybe if you bring it to their attention and tell them that it is making you not want to live anymore I believe that they will work on this. You may help them a lot by telling them.
2007-01-17 00:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋