I keep dreaming of my ex and his family,we only broke up last week,well he walked out on me and our son,but anyway every night since he`s left i`ve dreamed about him,nothing special but he`s just always there doing normal things as is his mum and brother,it`s driving me mad!!I never dreamed as much about him in the 6 years we were together than i have recently,what causes this?Is it because i miss him and he`s still in my thoughts when i go to sleep or something??
2007-01-17 00:06:59 · 11 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u dream of him, because u weren't ready and didn't want the split. u miss him and are still in love with him. he will be in your thoughts for awhile, we just don't forget them when they leave us, u haven't accepted what has happened yet. you have not come to terms with it. u still have expectations that there will still be some kind of relationship.
2007-01-17 01:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because you are trying to come to terms with the fact that he is not around anymore. I'm sure that it is very hard for you after 6 years of being together. Six years is a long time, plus you two have a son together. I went through the same thing. I would dream about him and then when I woke up I would feel sick when I realized he wasn't there and it was over. I'm up right now because I had a dream of another ex boyfriend. It has been five years since I talked to him. Just give yourself some time. don't think about him when you are in bed and trying to go to sleep. Try to think of something else.
2007-01-17 00:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by uuummk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor lamb. It must be awful for you right now. You don't really say why you split. Is it for ever or are you on a row-break? Dreams are a way of organising things as we sleep. Although they seem odd sometimes, the brain knows what it is doing. Your waking self is probably putting all the positive aspects of your relationship on the back burner so at night, the brain is slipping them into your head to help you sort out the mess! Its the normal things that make a relationship. The watching of TV, cooking supper, changing light bulbs. All that sort of thing is what we end up missing. I hope this gets resolved quickly one way or the other for your sake and your sons. Good luck.
2007-01-17 00:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think, perhaps, a part of you always dreams but only when the dream seems important to you do you remember it. I am sure you dreamed about him when you were with him but when you woke up the dream faded instantly as when he was there the dream was not worth remembering.
If you dream about his mum and his brother too then you might miss having a family around you. Perhaps even if things are over with your Ex his mother might still like to visit you to see her grandson. Perhaps even if you are on bad terms with him at the moment you could still see members of his family, assuming you want to and they are kind to you.
Anyway I hope this all resolves itself soon, dreams can give you strange thoughts if you ponder on them too long. Have a great day.
2007-01-17 00:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. As we go through relationships we learn and at times pick up "battle wounds." You will continue to dream about your ex until you "let go" of him on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.
2007-01-17 06:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely YES that you missed him. Imagine the times that you were together. You are called a couple when together & could do things that satisfy you both without being bothered. SATISFACTION IS GUARANTEED WHEN THAT IS BEING DONE. Being together for so many years make yourselves like a normal friends & may not be as exciting on sex. However, now that he's gone..you would recall sweet memories. HOW SAD IT IS... Its an advice...talk to him & firmly decide what you want.
2007-01-17 00:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by mackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dream about my ex all the time even though we havent spoken in years and have absolutely no feelings whatsoever. Its just unresolved issues or your subconscious uses your ex as a means to demonstrate a particular point.
2007-01-17 00:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by ByeBuyamericanPi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens to all of us...i have dreampt all sorts about my ex.....wake up the next day and think ewwwwww! lol it could have been a hunk instead of my ex of 10 yrs lol!
If you only broke up last week is there any chance that you can work things out?....or is that not what you want?
Wish u luck! x
2007-01-17 01:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its because u are thinking about him and in ur sleep u still are so u dream about him, try not to think about him and get on with things and it sud stop xx
2007-01-17 00:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Its your subconscious telling you that you need to deal with the fact that hes not there in "normal life" any more, and you need to feel something about it so you can start to move on.
2007-01-17 00:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by ☺☻☺☻☺☻ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋