i kinda like my guy friend & no one knows bout it(were in the same circle of friends).but he knew bout it and he got mad at me i denied it to cover up for our friendship but he got angier.he told 1 of our friends out loud that he doest like pipol who doest tell the truth(i was jst beside them and he was refering to me).i actually tried to fix things up but he jst told me to move on.i did but hes the one who still mad at me.so i left him alone never really talked since then.its been 4 years and ive heard hes still really mad at me for the things i hvent done.i lied about liking him coz i knew he'll get angry and he did thats why i denied it but hes still mad.now that ive done nothing and left him alone and still hes mad at me.were having a reunion nxt month nd i dunno how to deal with him.i wanna act as if nothing happend but.been there done that.it didnt work.he ignored me so i ignored him too.im kinda frustrated coz hes not telling why is he mad at me even if i left him alone already
2007-01-16 23:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by xelace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dont lie. Honesty is the best thing. If you cant talk to him in person, write him a letter about everything. Explaining that yes you did like him but knowing that he didnt feel the same you denyed it to save your friendship. Let him know that if you cant (couldnt) have him as a boyfriend that you rather have him in your life as a friend then not in your life at all. Let him know that you are sorry for everything and would like to work it out and be friends again if possible or at least end things on good terms.
Good luck.
2007-01-16 23:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 4 long yrs you are telling he is still mad on you because you denied the truth tell him the truth you will come to an conclusion if he is agood friend he will under stand your feelings because true friends care and respect each other feelings and if he likes you then their is no question and if it is negative still then iwill say you have answer to your question which you have in your heart for this years.
2007-01-17 00:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb' he's still mad b'cause he has some lil' love 4 u 2.I think u have 2 take a T.out 4 lil' bit and if he didn't ignore u again (he's forgottin' d'thing),u can start 2 talk (say sorry 1st 'n promise u won't lie 2 him 'gain).tell him u want 2 start d'friendship 'gain.(wen u take a T.O 'n u meet him, just smile 'n go) B' NICE ...
[if it didn't work, forget him 'n make a new friend]
2007-01-17 00:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by essaminstein-ER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, ha, ha...too late! You're busted and also caught lying on top of it!! It just goes to show, my theory of men and women being just 'friends' is all wet. One or the other of you will invariably find the other attractive; and unless you act on it(and even sometimes if you do!), the relationship suffers. Men and women are different to the extent of almost being another species altogether...stop trying to change nature!!!
2007-01-16 23:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To your basic query,why throw a lug wrench into the typical long standing ways,and plays of modern intersocial behavior -sure go ahead lie!
2007-01-17 00:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by boutgivup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were honest. He's mad about your honesty and doesn't know how to act maturely about the information you've given him. Stay honest. And move on. His loss, really...
2007-01-17 04:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by mickeymouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him y hes still mad n u make evrythg clear. hes mad really
2007-01-16 23:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋