IS she mad at me ?

Question

hello everybody im just typing to see if one of my best friends are mad at me ? first off we always walk to class and yesturday she walk right in front of me. i ask why ans she said cuz she can with an attitude. she kept calling everybody else her best friend did sit with me at lunch or walk with me for the rest of the day i callled her she aint wanna talk about nothing then face to face i ask her was shhe mad at me she said no! her moms wedding is this saturday im invited and bringing 2 of my american friends to the haitain wedding there really excited to go :] but will my friend nathalia act better why wont she bring me my back pack ? [it's at her house because i went to try on my bridesmaid dress after school and forgot it] by the way the dress didnt fit so i said ill just wacth the wedding i bought a spicy purple dress and my friend is wearing a black one to the wedding. why is she mad at me what did i do ? what should i do ? and please no smart remarks.......*THANX*

Answer 1

Unfortunately it sounds like either your friend is upset with you about something or something else is going with her that she's having a hard time talking to you about. However the only one that can give you the answers that you need is your friend. Since you don't know what's going on, don't push the issue with her. Continue to speak to her and be a friend to her. If you feel that you can't talk to her or she won't respond back to you, try writing her letter. Approach her in a way of apologizing and that's not to say that you're guilty of something. It's just your way of saying, "I'm sorry that we as friends have this problem between us." Then let her know how you feel without sounding like a victim and making her out to be a bad guy. Approach it as you both are wrong, for having the lack of commuication that a good friendship needs so that these types of problems won't come up. Let her know that you miss her being around and that you want to work out whatever is going on. As far as the backpack is concerned approach her one on one about getting it back or waiting until the wedding to get it. But you don't want to appear as if you're trying to confront her or that you're angry. Right now, be the bigger person and continue to treat her like she's still your best friend. Let her know that no matter what you still want her as your best friend and that no matter what she's dealing with you're there for her. I wish you luck on getting your friend back. Hold your head up, things will work out for the best for you.

Answer 2

You guys need to sit and talk honestly about what is wrong. Tell her that you dont know what you did but would like to know so you dont do it again and make up for it. If she doesnt want to talk then write her a letter explaining everything about how you feel. Tell her you want to talk and work it out that her friendship means a lot to you. I wish you luck.

Answer 3

meet her face to face and ask her what;s wrong she'll probably say nothing but stop her as she try's to leave speak to her in a delicate form if she doesn;t answer take off she'll come running after you it worked for me!

Answer 4

ur makin a mountain out of a mole hill so what if shes mad at you

Answer 5

cz you have a better looking dress then her i think. for ten points thanks