Yesterday , I was sitting in L.A and our teacher handed us a assignment to work on with a partener.
My friend who I hae know just this school year called my name and asked me did I want to work with her. I told her yes, but then my other friend who I have know since like the 3rd grade asked me and I told her I was already with my other friend and that she asked me first.
So, we were allowed to go out to the hallway and both me and my friend that I was working with and my other friend and her partener went out in the hallway.
The first friend (the one who I have know for just this school year) doesnt like my other friend (the one I have known longer) and told me to come sit at a table far away from her and her partener (she doesnt like either) and so I followed not thinking of it as a bad thing but that she just wanted to work in a quiet area. I went back into the classroom when the bell rung and my friend was looking at me with her P'ed off face and I asked was she mad because I
2007-01-16 23:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
decided to work with my other friend, and she said no. Was I wrong for following her?
2007-01-16 23:38:24 · update #1
I like them both and dont want to abandon either of them.
2007-01-17 00:27:24 · update #2
Your friend is being a dick.
I'm sorry, I'm not saying she is one, but she sure is acting like one.
She should be able to get over the fact that you wanted to work with a girl who asked you first. It's really not that big of a deal, and if she makes it one, then maybe it's time you two had a chat.
2007-01-17 08:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,you were not wrong.You went with who asked first,and there is nothing wrong with that.Your friend you have been friends with for years should not get mad over something as petty as you doing one project with another friend.If you two have been friends for years she should know that you still are her friend,but you went on who asked first.She will come around in time hun,i promise.She just feels like you chose the other over her at this point.Dont worry too much about it,she will come around.Good luck hun and have a good day.
2007-01-17 09:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what Moon Goddess said.
Also, you are allowed to be friends with whoever you want to! If the friend you've had forever doesn't like your new friend, that's ok, she doesn't have to like her. But she shouldn't stop you from being friends with her. As someone else has said here, maybe she is feeling threatened. Don't feel guilty for sitting with your new friend, as long as your oldest friend knows you are still there for her, you SHOULD be right.
Girls are really b i t c h y unfortunately, so be prepared for a cat fight somewhere along the way!
take care, good luck! xo
2007-01-17 09:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No maybe she is just so used to doing everything with you that she might be afraid that with this new friend you wont pay attention to her anymore. Tell them both that you like both of them but its a hard position for you since they both dont like each other.
2007-01-18 00:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels treatened that u her good friend is turning against her cause of the new friend she don't like her,and viseversa,u should stay close to the ones u've known cause u only have childhood friends once don't blow her off
2007-01-17 08:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by dezzza37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them both equal time and let them deal with it or they arent true friends!
2007-01-17 13:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sometimes you work with one friend sometimes you work with another.
2007-01-17 07:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Its your decision to work with whoever you want.
2007-01-17 08:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just don't let them near each other
2007-01-17 08:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by taytaymm28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋