Urgent!! What the best way to get a Gemini's attention & 2 want you back or miss you Advice from Gemini's?

Question

I have was seeing a gemini guy 28 on an off for half a year, but he wasn't in the frame of mind for a relationship at this moment in time. The thing is from day 1 we were like soulmates, got on very well intellectually and always had so much fun. But he really doesn't want anything serious right now at this point in time, I have tried to move on several occasions but he always comes back saying that he misses me, he misses my company, someone to talk to and liaise with, and even says that I am perfect for him but he still dosen't want a relationship right now, but likes me alot. So I have decided to move on for good, how and why would he let me move on if we gel so well like he says? how do I get him to miss me and want me back. I need to know what would attract a Gemini to making you want an ex or someone back? situations that you have been in and wanted someone back, I know that I can move on, but I still want to know what I should do for him and a gemini to want you back?

Answer 1

He would like very much to be your friend but I don't think you're mature enough to be his. If sex is so much more important to you than someones friendship then move on, but have the courage to tell him the real reason why.

The best way to get a Gemini's attention?
Change.

Answer 2

I am a Gemini and I have played this same scenario with people. This is just a game to him, he knows your there and convenient. If you want him to come looking for you, the best thing to do is ignore him. He won't like it that your moving on and happy... But then again what he most likely Loves the most- is a challenge, so he will probably find someone to make you jealous. So he can sit back and enjoy how much he is making you crazy!!! Next thing you know, your in a mental house with padded white walls and straight jacket. Where is he? Playing the same game with another victim. Basically, it comes down to the fact that emotionally Gemini's men or women are never ready for a relationship. We can say we are, even make people believe that we are. The truth is we will always be looking for something/someone new and exciting! Give up- move on, or get fitted for that straight jacket!

Answer 3

Gemini men are very contrary. They are attracted to what they think they can't have or shouldn't have. They can be covetous as well, meaning that they want what they want regardless of right or wrong. They are also very interested in anything that seems taboo or forbidden. Sexually, they have big appetites, but become bored with a conquest. While they may have talent, they usually don't like to work for things, and don't have a problem latching on to a woman for what they can get out of her or the relationship. Usually they are somewhat strange and can be loners, since they don't like to be judged or compared to other standards. Wanting a Gemini man can be exhausting and in the long run, usually not worth the effort.

Answer 4

Weeeeeell I know the answer sweetie but please don't get cranky with me.................

My husband is a Gemini and the answer to your question is pretty short and sweet. Gemini's are attracted to beautifull things, so you're probably a really pretty girl. They love being surrounded by beauty. You say he keeps coming back cos he misses his soul mate and the connection you both have. That could only mean one thing. Perhaps you have let your appearance slide a bit since you first met. Please don't be offended. A gemini man is pretty much like a 2 yr old little boy, even though he'd never admit it. You know, doesn't get his way in a situation so storms off, you can just picture them stamping their feet up and down yelling for mummy!!!!

Hope I helped a bit..........

Cheers..................

P.S. He loves you too much to ever admit how shallow these reasons might appear but don't take it to heart, just do what you have to do. Whatever you decide will be right, depends how much energy you guys have together I guess.

Answer 5

You need to stop putting him before yourself. That's it. If you' were doing that, you wouldn't be writing this note, and you'd be annoyed with him by now.

This is, of course, assuming there isn't something wrong with you. And that's a big "if" considering you keep taking him back.

So... do this: take care of yourself. Get or stay in shape (join a gym, do floor excercises, walk a mile or so around your neighborhood 3 times a week), you're gonna need new clothes to go with that new body of yours as you tone up, while you are single it's a good time to work on your hobbies or take a class or do some volunteer work or work with a political group, network, network, network.

Spend time with family and friends: you're going to neglect them when you are in a relationship, so now's the time to put in some quality time with them.

Go out on dates. You may not find a replacement for your alleged soul mate, and some of the bad dates may make you feel like crying when you get home after them, but practice makes perfect, and it helps you tune your dating persona, Don't rush this, but if somebody asks for your number, what the heck, right? Don't jump into another relationship: constantly ask yourself "are they good enough for me?" instead of the other way around.

What do you get from all of this effort: a healthier more attractive you that is more confident in your social skills that has more developed interests and a larger social network.

Don't rush it, but push yourself outside of your comfort zone from time-to-time. After you've made reasonable progress, answer this question honestly, "Is you Gemini up to your new standards?".

Answer 6

Gemini's are fickle. I am a Gemini. Never know what we want. Hard to make decisions. So, my suggestion is for you to play a little hard to get. Next time he calls and wants to get together tell him you have promised to do your mother's toenails or visit a local nursing home with some friends or go to dentist with your dad. . . . . .something that he knows you could probably get out of. Don't be so readily availiable. And when he says he misses you say, "Really? That makes me feel good" Don't tell him you miss him too. Then after a couple of excuses you give him and you go out tell you had a great time but don't kiss him goodnigt. Then you will have him hooked. Keep him guessing and surprise him with little things. Notes left on his car. A cookie bouquet delivered to his work. Nothing real romantic just something to let him know you care. You will have to be careful and not over do it because if you do it all the time he will get bored easily. You have to be on your toes and creative for new ideas. My boyfriend blew me away one valentines day. He had candles in the bathroom burning, a warm tub full of bubble bath, chocolates all over the counter top, the lights out, ice in the sink with a bottle of champagne in the sink on the ice and a champagne glass. He undressed me, helpte me into the tub and gave me a bath with the special Mary Kay soap he had bought for me (put it all in a basket). It was great. So, at first it does not need to be too romantic because that will make him suspicious, but work your way up to it and you should be fine. Email me if you have any other questions at [e-mail]. Good luck.

Answer 7

Geminis dont want to be pinned down or restricted. Give him his freedom then he'll come back. But can i just say why would you bother with it? the whole commitment thing will be a reoccuring issue through out the relationship.

Answer 8

hey, well what i think u should do is this: do something new on ur appearence and try 2 get freinds with somebody else and spend a lot of time with that person bacause then if ur boyfriend he will notice that he can't make u wait because u r going 2 move on with him or withought him and if he really likes u he will say what he really feels.hope that helps.

Answer 9

Be yourself. If that doesn't gert his attention, then you really don't want to be with him anyway.
I mean, say you try being something you're not and he notices and wants to be with you forever. Do you really want to pretend forever? I would hope not.

Answer 10

youre willing to let go so why do you care? Isnt that a waste of time? I wouldnt do anything cuz if theyre gone its pointless and obvious....we dont always get what we want..