I don't think that there is anything wrong with adoption. In fact, I am adopted. this puts me into a whole different category of understanding. I would have had a horrible life with my biological parents. However, by being adopted I have had soo many opportunities. Being adopted gave me a chance at life. My parents could have had me aborted or drooped me in an orphanage, or worse. It's a blessed thing. The only thing I want to say against it is make sure you know what you are getting yourself into. For example, adopting a baby verses a child. These children may come with physical/mental/emotional scars. are you prepared for this? Furthermore, this is stating the obvious, but this child would not be your blood. Can you love it the same way? This may seems heartless, but some people don't think about this. And, are your prepared for the questions you face when the child finds out that they are adopted. Because, believe me, there will be questions concerning your decision, their biological parents decisions and lives. Put some more thought into it. Maybe even talk to close friends and family, or if need be a professional counselor. But, if you can handle what comes with raising an adopted child, please consider it. There are so many children that need homes.
2007-01-16 23:32:22
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answered by drumin_phreak 2
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if the world was a better place, there woulden be adoption because people would live of the land and have there own tribes. But the government has divided all people. did you know in australia people get paid more if there single then they do when there partnered? who has the power to say things that grew here before people is "not safe", and the next minet give us all these pills 4 so caled dipresion that are all chamicals that are man made. john howard and goerge bush ar trying to bread sulders by paying all australians $4000 to have or adopt a child! and by saying both mother and father has to work and put there children in day care, what are they teaching our children and putting in to there heads?? While there parents are off working for somone. who, i mean what single human has the power over the majority and to tell them whats write or wrong?? Fight the power!!
2007-01-16 23:38:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Oops I had three and adopted one. And he is a joy I wish i had done this sooner I love the ones I gave birth to but there are so many out there that needs loving homes, I may adopt more after some of mine get older.
2007-01-16 23:23:00
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answered by Mary B 5
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I would say I DON'T want anymore kids. BUT if I were to look at two more kids I might look at adoption. As for what is wrong with it is you lose family blood/history. I mean as for your family tree it is blood that makes this. If you adopt a kid NOT your you have just broken you blood line. Doing so can bring an end to your family tree.
2007-01-16 23:22:35
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answered by GRUMPY 7
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If I wanted two children I'd prefer adopting them both, if I could afford that.
2007-01-17 00:21:04
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answered by undir 7
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if I was not able to have them myself. I don't find anything wrong with adoption
2007-01-16 23:24:05
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answered by glamour04111 7
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yes if you want two child adopt one bcoz u are gving life to the adopted one or else he/she will ne orphan
2007-01-16 23:35:14
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answered by snedden d 2
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