There's this meano kid in our class, who's always after me. One day, when i was just walking, she complianed that i was annoying her, even though i was just, well, walkin'! I had to sit in the corner, the teacher told me too, and she giggled with her band of "cool" kidz! I act like star girl so i dont have too many friends, just a few 'cause people nowadays dont care about anything, feelings, happiness, kindness. what shall i do with that kid and how do you mak friends? please read my personal info for more info.
2007-01-16 23:04:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sports writer is correct, i am 12!
2007-01-16 23:16:05 · update #1
I don't like to have too many close friends, back in Primary, my group was basically me and 3 guys, we were like brothers (not really), but we always helped each other out. Don't try to make friends with the "cool" kids (yes I know about that, there was a group of them in my old school too, them trying to act all grown up, already having boyfriends/girlfriends and trying to talk with an American accent), because they'll just backstab you in the end. This is what most people would tell you to, but ignore her, because if you try to do something back, you'll most likely embarrass yourself (because, like you said, you don't have many friends, and I don't think they'll stick up to you against the "cool" kids).
2007-01-17 00:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us hit a dry patch in our childhood where we felt that we had no friends, or very little. I didn't have many friends, but the few that I had meant more to me than having 15 other "friends".
You'll always come into contact with people that will look down on you and think you're "annoying" or what ever it may be. You just have to ignore it. I use to tell myself this while I was being teased in school, Nothing nor anyone can bring me down. I take what is meant to and I grow from it. The more I teased, or talked about, I held my head up higher. I'm sure you already have some great friends. Having friends isn't about the quantity, but the quality of the friendship. You may have 20 friends, but they don't even equal the amount 1 best friend can do and mean to you.
Just be yourself and thats all that really matters. Appreciate the few friends you have right now. Don't stress wanting to meet more, you're only in the 7th grade. You'll meet more eventually.
-.-'
2007-01-17 07:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you need to change your way if you want to be accepted by friend. the way you talk what you talk about, dress up the design or the color of your chothes and then start to look for people that's dress talk and think like you on the enthernet.
make emails with your photos and be more open to the world by telling people about yourself on your emails. you could even find a great guy that way for a date. because there's one thing i want you to know you will always be you no matter what anybody said about you. because you are not a smoker, and everybody wants you to smoke so they 're could be your friend, that's doesn't mean you have to do it. just find people that don't smoke and they will love you the way you are, because that's the way they are.
2007-01-25 04:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by marcel m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You share a birthday with my second eldest grandaughter and I gather you're the same age, 12? Be yourself and stop worrying about what others think, say or do. And seeing as you want to be a writer (I am), look on it as getting good info for a book later on in life! Good luck!
2007-01-17 07:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should avoid them as long as u can can she doesn't deserve to be care of she is nothing but a trash..u are so special girl and so wonderful and u are so good and nice and i think u shouldn't waste ur time on them and to make new friends u have to be you self just that well here's a secret try be funny as much as u can...i hope u make friends soon but u have new friend that's ME...take care
2007-01-25 03:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by razan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have a knack for making friends and when you decide you will make her your friend. Only thing, you have to shed some of your sensitivity. You get feelings, happiness, kindness after you make a friend, not before. You get ragged before, and sometimes if done within limits, it makes better friends.
2007-01-17 07:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She,s a bully and you need stand up to girls like that.If you avoid her she,s gonna keep comming after you so don,t give her that satisfaction.What i always did was let her know i wasen,t scared of her-i really was but mama tought me some ropes.And when she saw i didn,t play her game she backed off.usually when you stand up to bully,s others wanna be your friend,it happened to me like that,good luck sis.
2007-01-24 15:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need this person as your friend. I am sure you can find caring and friendly girls who would enjoy your friendship. Always be loyal to a friend. The mean a lot to us.
2007-01-25 03:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up 2 her let her see she doesn't affect u people like that are unhappy and tend to take that out on others true friends r rare you don't get many of them you want true friends that like u for who u are just be yourself and you will have good friends
2007-01-24 20:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by zoe k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your like a star, of course not all would like you because of some matters. it maybe they are jealous and the like. if that kid doesnt like you then let it be. we cannoit force those people to like us. to gain a friend, find those that are willing o accept you of who you are.
2007-01-25 04:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by leachim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋