well, this problem probably started since the beginning when i was like 6 or something. i'm 15 right now. and my mom is like 45 but still looking very young and she's not looking any older. she has big boobs and perfect body for an Asian woman, and the face is nice.
well, everytime my mom has a boyfriend. they usually kiss and start having sex, and for some reason, i always get mad. i bang stuff, scream and yell for no reason.
there was one time when i was 13 or something, and this guy my mom works with came over at night, and i tried to kill him with a knife. i really do have a problem.
even when my mom was still living with my step dad. everytime they make love, i still get mad and angry for no reason. even if she did it to my real dad.
i don't know why this is, but i need some help. i tried not to listen to any of it, and do my own things, but still no luck.
my mom is not a whore, so you better not say anything rude.
or i'll report.
thanks for answering.
2007-01-16 23:01:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my mom can never meet the right person for her. that's the reason why she has to keep looking, and almost all of them are jerks, is what she says.
2007-01-16 23:02:28 · update #1
It sounds to me like your mother has sex with her boyfriends and husbands too close to you for comfort. I don't blame you for getting upset. If I ever had a father who did something like that, I'd be plenty mad and upset myself. She shouldn't be doing that in front of her children. Even if she is in the next room, if they are loud it is not appropriate. Tell her it makes you uncomfortable and ask her to let you know when she's having a man friend over so that you can make plans to be somewhere else.
2007-01-16 23:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jump Back 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop throwing tantrums. You should see a psycologist, or a doctor, or maybe talk to some of your friends about this. After all, your mom is not you, so technically, you can't control what she does, even if she is destroying her life with the wrong guy. And seriously, at 13, you can consider ending the life of another person, which is actually quite disturbing. Remember, in three years, just three short years, you will be moving out to college. Try to move farther away from your mom, so that you won't see her as often, and therefore won't have these kinds of problems.
2007-01-17 19:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by oofagook 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should stay over at a friend if your mom has someone over or go out to the gym or the movies or something. Try remove yourself from the situation. Also maybe you should tell your mom how you feel and see if she can't help the problem as well. Aside from that, you could always seek professional counselling.
2007-01-16 23:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by salstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truly mistake your mom is making is that she is mendacity to you. She has each and every proper to reside her lifestyles. She didn't die, your father did. If your nation is backward sufficient to nonetheless, within the twenty-first century, feel she will have to have thrown herself at the funeral pyre, it's approximately time to give up. Life is for the dwelling. No lady owes her lifestyles to the homage and devotion to the reminiscence of a lifeless guy. She can date if she needs to. She can remarry if she needs to. She will have to be taking well care of her youngsters, for certain. If she demands to paintings to make a earnings to aid you, then that's what she will have to do. Tell your sister after which either one of you insist that your mother sit down down with the 2 of you and speak about what's going on. No extra lies. If your sister did depart the condominium that could be one much less character in your mother to aid.
2016-09-07 21:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by klavon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are an idiot. you describe your mom like a pervert. you sound like a jealous person and your feeling towards your mom seem at best misplace.
i really do think you need some professional help like a school counselor or something.
i don't mean to be rude or cold but if you know something is wrong ( and this posting seem like an indication) please seek help before your feeling become your true personality
2007-01-16 23:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by sam 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you should stop acting like a brat and giving her such a hard time, and maybe she will find the right guy. You are being selfish and stuipd. What happens when you grow up and leave home, she will be alone and she will get old alone and then will you be happy??
2007-01-16 23:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by poutanaki4u 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ah, I had the same problem as you did. But my mom dumped his ***. You will get over it. Trust me. =)
2007-01-17 00:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by sk8terchic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋