my bf is studying abroad. last week, when we chat on YM, i saw his avatar, which was him and a girl. He said that she is his gf when i asked him about the girl. unfortunately, my internet was disconneted that time so i couldnt chat with him any more. what should i do next
- move on
- ignore it, keep contact with him as friends and dont ask about that girl at all
- write him email, show him my feelings
p.s: though we are in love, i never show him that i really love him or he is the only one in my heart. is there any chance that his behavior is a test. i mean, if i really love him, i would be very jealous with that girl.
2007-01-16 22:59:32 · 15 answers · asked by pussycat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it is a test he is being very childish. If he wanted you to show him that you loved him he should of said something. Personally, I think you and he should end the relationship and get on with your own lives. He maybe just wanted someone who would show him that he is the only one in a persons heart.
Maybe this might be a lesson for you that if you love someone don't be afraid to let your lover into your heart.
2007-01-16 23:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by sydney77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well anything is acceptable but not that a person is cheated.Tell him what u thought and let him ans u if he gets unnessarily angry and says u souldnt be doubting on me and all.. well get the fact clear he is cheating u! if he is not he will tell u who that one was, when a person has something to hide mostly they react badly.. get a little angry and all.. so sweetheart talk to him and if he is chetaing u leave him world is full of people no one is no bodys end! so enjoy! and have fun
2007-01-17 07:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you love him but you never show him that you really love him.
In my opinion you must not really love him, why would you not show him you really love him if you do. That is what love is all about. When you love someone you want to show them how much you love him and that he is your one and only person in your heart.
You will never maintain you love or your lover if you don't show them how important and special they are to you.
No wonder he is with another girl he isn't getting the love from you and by love understand that is not sex. Giving someone sex is not giving love although if you are in touch with your feelings and understand yourself you can give love through intimacy.
Let him go and stop with your I love you I don't game and get some therapy to try and understand what is going on with you.
That is not right, its mean to tell someone you love them then hide your love from them for your own insecurities, you need help to see a therapist.
2007-01-17 07:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would advise u to give him some space and see if he tries to contact u if not just let him be and move on and hopefully u would find someone better cause i really dont think he loves u if he has a pic of another girl on his avatar
2007-01-17 07:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by affh1st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has already a girlfriend. Move on.
Next time you like someone, show it before they look for someone else.
2007-01-17 07:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he loves you. but whether he answers yes or no, move on. don't make a fool of yourself over a guy. you'll find someone else and even better who will be capable of staying faithful to you.
2007-01-17 07:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on find you a friend for your Avatar.
2007-01-17 07:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
But if he really loved you he wouldn't have another girlfriend, I'd leave it unless you really think he is pretending to have one, Just talk to him and be honest about your feelings.
2007-01-17 07:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better move along, sorry to say. If you think he's in love with you, he sure doesn't act like it.
2007-01-17 07:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if my bf was cheating me and i knew about what i would do is give him three chances and if he keeps on doing it then i would just go walk up to him say that we need to talk and give him 2 best ansers 1) me 2)or her but i can c what your going threw here so what i would if i was you ........ i would just tell how i felt and how he would fell if i was cheating on him.....!?!?
2007-01-17 07:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋