What advice would you give to someone Trying to Conceive?

Question

I thought it would be nice to make a list here of hints and tips for those TTC. Things that you have learnt and wish someone had told you.

Answer 1

I have been pregnant 7 times I have 3 children living and 1 on the way I would say talk iron tablets everyday I have a daughter who is 13 and another that's 6 see the age difference I had a very hard time getting pregnant and I began taking those and got pregnant within 2 months.Oh and from the first day you have your period I'd say count to the 9th day-15th dayand have intercourse I wouldn't say everyday maybe every other day.what I mean 9-15 is have sex between those days sorry

Answer 2

So do you only have sex once a month? I mean is that is what you are doing then you are putting all your chances on 12 times a year. If you have sex more often you increase your chances. I call this machine gunning it. You see if you are very good with a gun then any six shooter will do. I mean you can take your time to aim and because you are good you more than likely hit the target. For the rest of us is easier to use machine gun. Shoot lots of lead in the general direction and eventually one of the bullets will hit the target. The more bullets flying the more likely you are to hit the target. The ovulation cycle is a tricky businness because it is really hard to know with good accuracy when a woman is ovulating. It could be that the math is right but is based on bad assumptions and you might actually be cheating yourself out of a chance by trying at the wrong time. My advice is to do it when you are hrony. Not when the man is horny but when the woman is horny because it increases the chances. You see woman get the horniest during ovulation. Also, give the ma a rest to recover his sperm count. So, maybe not every day but every 3 days or so. Other things to consider is age. As both woman and men age their reproductive system doesn't work quite as well. This is especially true for woman because they are born with a pre determine amount of eggs. As they age fewer lower quality eggs are left so the chances of getting pregnant diminish. This is why people in theur 30's have a hard time conceiving yet, you can't even look at a 16 year old sideways and not getting her pregnant. I know, it sounds low and dirty but is a FACT of life. Is a conflict between todays society and nature. Nature wants you to reproduce young but also die young. Society wants you to wait until you are bale to take care of the kid and live a long life. You must strike a balance somewhere. Other factors will also affect your chances like if you use drug either legal or over the counter. Alcohol, your diet and even the environment you live in. Even stress will affect you. So, you may want to look into this kind of things too.

Answer 3

Keep his testicles a bit cooler. A cool drink between the legs can help. deffinately no hot tube or sauna.
Position can have an effect. Recieveing his ejaculate from
behind while on hands and knees is said to be the best.
Finally, have an orgasim. it turns out that if a women has an orgasim, the conctaction serve to draw a greater amount of semen into the womb

Answer 4

-plan well get full bottled on your & partners medical/health status quo./ decide with your head 75% heart 25% at the end of the day only god can send you a baby (natural / adopted)...
- must keep up your fluids - drink plenty of water limit sugary salty fluids
-eat & exercise well/ too fat thin or old not optimal conditions...lifestyle, attitude,actions % BMI matters
-limit environmental toxins inc. chemicals in soaps
-regular visits to OBGYN for both parties - test for all medical conditions inc. infertility probs.Sort medical probs ASAP
-pray to st Anthony & mother Mary for hope & strength
- get support, love, budget well & time plus cross your fingers for best results
-be stress free (easier said than done) by getting the right info for your case from OBGYN wise folk (pinch of salt/ still your choice)
-practice makes perfect lol with or without medical help
-keep positive it goes a long way if you make the effort to do all that's in your power/capabilities
A happy mum & dad makes happy bubs..
Cheers 99

Answer 5

,Just forget that you want to conceive and enjoy intercourse with your hubby,relax and don't stress out at all,it will happen when you least expect have your body and your hubby's examined thoroughly by a doctor to be sure there is nothing wrong with both of you and hey,try prayer it works you know

Answer 6

Relax, enjoy the intimacy between you and your partner. Having sex at least every third day increases your chances. Most of all relax...

Answer 7

My bigest tip is relax - dont stress about it and it will happen. Stress hinders your chance of concieving

Answer 8

* Eat healthy - lots of leafy green vegetable
* Take pregnancy suppliments - ensure they have a suitable amount of folate
* Exercise
* Get plenty of rest
* Get a check up with your doctor to ensure you are healthy - ensure your pap test is up to date

Answer 9

i have some tips

conception fertility pillow
http://www.babyhopes.com/conception-curve-fertility-pillow.html


basal thermometer determine fertility and chart ovulation
http://www.pregnancystore.com/sophia_fertility_monitor.htm

calendar lets you track 3 cycles when you will conceive
http://wish2conceive.com/ovulation_calendar.php

free ovulation predicts when you will conceive
http://ovulation.24bw.com/ovulation_calendar.php


http://www.ovulex.com

http://www.genselect.com

they also have a tea called fertility tea

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Answer 10

If I would have known that when pregnant and high risk, I had twins, you couldn't have sex...I would have thought twice..lol