i have just been reading back on my old questions asked her last summer.
My hubby of 6 yrs and i are happily awaiting the birth of our 2nd child! (7 weeks to go)
We have always been madly in love and very happy, but last year my hubby went of the rails, no work , never home, partying (he did not cheat) and i kicked him out for 3 months, spending one night with some one else, i regret it and he knows everything.
I took him back in september.
We have resolved our issues and trust each other 100 percent, he is now just like he always was, a loving family man.
Do you think we are kidding ourselves, or can we realy just go back to being happy and stay that way?
2007-01-16 22:31:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would just like to make it clear that he was out of work for months, makeing no effort to get a job, just partying and leaving me with the bills and baby, and i did not just go out and sleep with the first guy i met, it was a drunken mistake, 2 months after the split.
None of that matters now but i dont want people to think i was beeing a bad wife to my husband.
2007-01-16 23:11:46 · update #1
Congratualtions! It's so good to hear that somebody is working it out. I am also married and know full well that marriage isn't always easy. Your story gives me some inspiration. I've read some of the other comments on this page and I think a lot of it is unnecessarily critical. It doesn't matter what road you chose to work things, just that you guys finally did. Maybe kicking him out was what he needed to realign his priorities, and maybe it gave you some time to realize your faults too. I don't think for an instant that you are fooling yourself. In fact, I think your relationship is going to be stronger than ever.
2007-01-16 23:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by gg55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so glad to hear of your good news!
No,I don't think the 2 of you are kidding yourselves-what I do think is that you both had a seriously rough patch,and then both of you realized how much you could be losing. The two of you have come through this stronger and with a greater appreciation of each other and your relationship. Well done!
And congratulations on the impending birth of your new baby!
2007-01-16 22:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sometime in the future life will throw you a Mickey and then what, throw him out again and cheat again?
Marriage isn't about being "Happy" all the time.
You had a chance to support him through a rough time and you went 180 degrees the other direction.
I hope they move your job to china and then you will see what goes around comes around.
2007-01-16 23:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I love Lincecum, I'll take Lester. Splitting hairs. EDIT: Lets not forget that Lester pitches in the AL with the DH. The difference between the two is much less than Lincecum supporters believe.
2016-05-23 23:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its what you both want keep hold of it
everyone has problems and dont be fooled into thinking your mates have better relationships than you me and my man have been together 10 years and had a few hurdles even high jumps in our relationship and were getting married in a few weeks so it goes to show if you both want eachother bad ebnough you can do it
2007-01-17 00:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you were wrong for kicking him out, it's just a phase. My husband still does that, but he works hard. As long as he works, let him party. But let him know how you feel about it. If things are working out, great!! But make sure that you aren't just "acting", if it's not for real, it won't work.
2007-01-16 22:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by mrs. mommy to be 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some times that's what it takes to wake them up. good for you. yes it may last for ever. by the good luck on the new baby. have a good life
2007-01-16 22:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can if you choose to... Life and love is all about choices on if we forgive and move on or not... You may very well need counseling and help to get past all of this....
2007-01-16 22:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it can work sometimes you have to step back to look at the whole picture and that 3 month break did just that
2007-01-16 22:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only one beeing able to answer ur question is ur feelings
if u feel happy with no mind pushing i dont see any problem
just only listen to urself and ur heart !!!
good luck !
2007-01-16 22:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋