my bf and i had sex on friday night i took the morning after pill on saturday morning and then on sunday night we had unprotected sex but witth the 'withdrawal method'..... am i pregnant ????
2007-01-16 21:05:11 · 29 answers · asked by Dominique P 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
u can get pregnant extremely easy with this 'method'. and u are almost guarenteeing getting infected with an std; if u get hiv, it's a irrevocable death sentence. it has been proven in the past that if sperm even spill very close to the opening, u could get pregnant...risk is slight, but has been known to happen.
when i was ur age, they didnt have a name for this lethal threat. aids didnt get a name until about 1981 or '82. back then, they thought only gay men got it, and slowly but surely, they found out just how dangerous this thing was.
u are putting a serious risk to ur life, pregnancy could become the least of ur worries. never have unprotected sex until u are married. all it takes is having sex with the wrong guy just once, and u are toast. withdrawal is dependant on the guy.....if he dont get out in time, ur chances for pregnancy skyrocket. use my mantra: no glove, no love, no exceptions.
2007-01-17 08:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,first things first.Dont be having intercourse protected or not with anyone that you wouldnt consider to be the father of your child or if you dont feel your old enough to become a mother.Anytime you have intercourse protected or unprotected you put yourself at a risk of pregnancy and stds.Abstinence is the only form of birth control that is 100%,and i urge you to consider that.
Second,"the withdrawl method" is not safe,or a way of protecting yourself.Males release a substance when they are aroused.It is what is known as "Pre-ejaculation).This substance they have no control over,and it can be released without warning.This substance contains sperms so therefore you can become pregnant as a result.
I dont think you are pregnant,but i am no doctor and personally i cannot tell you whether you are or not.You took the morning after pill,and you should have learned your lesson hun.I am sorry to say this,but the morning after pill should be used only in emergencys and not used as a form of birth control.If you are considering intercourse or are engaging in it,you need to get yourself to an obgyn.Find one in your area,and make an appt.They will run some tests if you are not pregnant,then you can bring up maybe being placed on birth control.More than likely they will prescribe them,and you will need to take them daily.Birth control isnt 100% and it doesnt prevent the contraction of stds so if you insist on engaging in such activities then you will need to have another form of protection.Even then you can contract numerous stds and possible pregnancy.Really think about whether you are ready for a child,or whether you would consider the person you are with to be the father of your child.If you answer "no" to either of those questions then you need to stop your actions and be responsible.Good luck hun,and have a good day!
2007-01-17 01:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mean the pull out method right..and no it is not safe..i have 2 children under 2 due to that method...why would u have unprotected sex anyway...so yes u could very well be pregnant..if u r having sex with your bf on a regular basis or at all for that matter, u need to be on birth control and if u cant afford it just go to your local plan parenthood and they will give it to you for free (your doctors office should know where it is) they will also give u condoms,. trust me u dont want to be a teen mom it isnt easy at all. and the majority of the time the bf doesnt stick around, no matter how much u think or he says he will...good luck to u and plz plz plz always use protection, these days there is no excuse no to.
2007-01-16 21:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by eyesopen16 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and let me tell you alittle story about the withdrawl method! Me and my husband have been together 26 years. We have never used any other method of birth control. When we were ready for our first child, he didn't withdrawl, we got pregnant. Seven years later, same thing. We continued to use the withdrawl method all these years and at 39 I got pregnant. Not only did I get pregnant, I was pregnant with twins! So here we are raising twin girls who are 4 years old when we should be getting ready for retirement! Our oldest is 21, our middle is 14 and now the twins. Please use other birth control, because NO.,..it is NOT safe! Needless to say, my tubes are tied now!
2016-03-29 01:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you could be pregnant. Why would you take such a chance with all the information and stuff easily available at any planned parenthood, or drug store/department store? Instead of taking a "morning after" pill why don't you just get on the pill or the patch, or a shot....quit being careless with you future!!! A child is an 18 year commitment at least. If you find you are not pregnant, quit being stupid and protect yourself.
2007-01-17 00:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The withdrawal method is the LEAST effective form of birthcontrol you can use. Get on the pill. Use a condom. Or STOP HAVING SEX if you have to ask questions like this.
2007-01-16 21:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by desiderio 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you stupid? why take it one day and then have sex the same night? that morning after pill was a bit of a waste of time. you probably aren't pregnant, you could be but you might not be. for the babies sake i hope you are not. if you don't even know that the withdrawl method doesn't work then you shouldn't be having sex you aren't responsible enough for it. before you have sex, the nex time find out what works and if you don't know then don't do it.
2007-01-16 21:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by confused 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the withdrawal method isn't safe and I would not put too much faith in it-- also taking the morning after pill isn't 100% a good thing -- too many hormones can screw you up -- so the best method is condoms or no sex at all -- your choice
2007-01-16 22:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by d2bcathie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you cant tell if you are pregnant yet, but the withdrawal method is hardly a method cos guys cnt control themselves to take it out in tiem it only needs a tiny bit of sperm to implant. u should use condoms..... take a pregnancy test in a couple weeks btu until then GO ON THE PILL nd use condoms
2007-01-16 21:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't tell yet, but only using the :withdraw method' as you call it is not a safe way to protect against pregnancy. Get on birth control and use a condom.
2007-01-17 01:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋