caught him so many times lying.should i believe him?he always gets mad at me for no reasons.he always tell me that im annoying and that i Bug him too much and that he get bored at me so he rather chat with some desperate ***** online.all i do is wait for him dont really say anything and when i ask something he tells me that im Annoying..wats up with that?But he always tell me that He loves me so much and miss me..its hard being away.long distance is really hard
2007-01-16 20:44:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was in this situation with my wife a few years ago,in fact it sounds like deja vu.I was being a butthead.What cured me was getting away from the internet.I was spending more time on there chatting,and to be frank watching porn,than I was spending with her.It got to the point where she was an interruption any time she spoke to me.Porn is addictive for guys,some may laugh at that,and to be honest I used to also,but it is.I believe that is the cause of many failed marriages these days.No,in case you are wondering I didnt find religion,I just realized that I was about to lose the woman I loved.One day she asked,and I agreed to limit the time I spent online,that changed everything for us.I do hope that everything works out for you.
2007-01-16 21:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron L 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
this is a relationship you should probably get out of...its not healthy for you to be put on the rollercoaster of you are annoying...then I love you and I miss you....I have found that once is a mistake twice is a pattern..if you have caught him lying that much, he isnt going to stop....
I was in a long distance relationship for 6 months and never once did my husband tell me I was annoying or lied to me....its not normal the way he is treating you...I know it may not be easy to leave, but for your mental health it is probably the best thing for you to do
2007-01-17 00:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not only lying to you.He lied to you to shut you up.If he loves you so much and misses you.What the h*ll is he doing spending his free time chatting some other woman up instead of spending time with you?Please.You are waiting for him.He is not worth waiting for.He should be so lucky to have a wife like you.Any other woman would have kicked his lying A** to the curb!!
2007-01-16 21:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by noga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You bug him...of course, every time you bust him for another of his lies he is going to be annoyed. He wants his cake and eat it too. t sounds as though he travels a lot and that can test any marriage.
Make an appointment with a marriage counselor, go alone or
with him when he is in town. Make an appointment with a divorce attorney to learn your options.
I hate a liar, they have absolutely no self-respect and self strip their integrity.
2007-01-16 20:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing has changed, why would you believe him now? Unless you have kids, I'd get away from this liar and start fresh elsewhere. Hard to do but worth it.
2007-01-16 21:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask yourself why it was that he felt he had to lie. If the trust is about him enjoying other women, you should come to terms with his natural male urges and assist him.
2007-01-16 20:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U seem to be nagging him for insignificant things.
2007-01-16 21:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear, he has told you what he thinks, he was honest. Now it is up to you to grow up.
2007-01-16 20:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋