I was posing as another person. I knew he was frequenting certain things. His profile was hidden.....so I went to photobucket and created this imaginary profile(I KNOW IT IS TERRIBLE!!!)He went for it. Then asked to call him. So I said lets just chat......and he went alllll the way. What.....tell me what would you do if this happened to you? Would you confront him? I know that what I did was gross.....but I knew something was going on. Any thoughts. He has been working out of town......so this is how I was able to do it.
2007-01-16 20:39:24 · 23 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did print EVERYTHING by the way! He gave me(my fake profile) his phone#. So I could please him in that way. But I said lets just take it slow!
2007-01-16 20:44:56 · update #1
My profile was completely different than me. She was a little bit younger than me....and I emailed him nude photos. Not of the real me....but my profile.He gave me his email too.
2007-01-16 20:48:18 · update #2
I am 100 and 10% sure it was him!
2007-01-16 20:49:45 · update #3
My suggestion, continue this...and try to ask him...bout his personal life...as in is he married...is he in love with his wife and is he willing to cheat on her...and do it real life with you...just play along and see how far it gets...If he agrees...then meet him up somewhere and then it's up to you whether you want to confront him there and then... or just totally walk out of his life.
But this can come back and hurt you. Therefore you have to be mentally stable and strong for this. But at least you know what he had really been up to behind ur back.
2007-01-16 20:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Aranel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness! If i had a husband and he did this to me, i would definately start thinking about divorce, if he's away...out of town...how can you believe he's doing what he says he's doing? How do you know he's not off with another woman?
When women get suspicous, they do things like you did, but if you hadn't of done it, you would never have found out.
You should definately confront him about this, if he has a go at you about fooling him, don't let him, because the truth is, he's doing a lot worse than what you did, you're being a faithful wife, he's going off and doing **** like that!
2007-01-17 04:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Yellow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a cheater!! Confront him with all the evidence, you don't have to be ashamed that you tricked him. You deserve to know the truth. I'm really sorry, I would be devastated if my husband did something like that. I hope you're a stronger person than me. You need all the power to leave him and move on.
2007-01-17 04:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose maybe, that you could be grateful that thats all he's doing. I mean, at least it's on the internet and not in the bed, or car, etc.
IF, I were to comfront him; it would be more fun to act out the conversation that you had with him in the chat room.
But if not, do it with others in chat too.
"What's good for the goose is good for the gander"
2007-01-17 04:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by summer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is so cheating. You must be devastated. I discovered my then partner now my ex had a profile on a dating web site. Its heart breaking. I confronted him then I wanted it to work. W limped along for a while but trust was so gone. Its over finito for you guys. Just depends how long it takes for it to end.
2007-01-17 05:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by browneyestrish 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are already in it, have someone call him for you that he wouldn't know the voice. Listen in and see what he is doing. Put it this way, you know what he is capable of, what he has done, and doing this is cheaper then hiring someone to do it all for you. Sure it may just be online, but one day that line will be crossed and you need your amo.
2007-01-17 04:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh..the beauty of the Internet, you can be anyone you want to be. Sorry for laughing, but you made my day. Why, we (my partner and I) had 2 houses for some time (I kept 1 as a place to work). We had PC's on the Net at both places and we both had accounts at ICQ. Simultaneously, without each other knowing, we set up bogus accounts and contacted each other (yeah, bizarre). Funny thing, I twigged it was her 5 minutes in and she twigged it was me in about the same time frame. You never know, he might have twigged it was you. But you've tried to deceive him anyway, by attempting and succeeding to lure him into a trap. I'd say it's backfired!
2007-01-17 04:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would say, set up a time to meet him through your profile and see if he goes for it. If he really shows up, that's when you confront him!!!
Just remember...It could be your husband is depressed and trying to find ways to escape his depression..
It doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage..... after you confront him..you may want to seek counseling.
2007-01-17 10:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by DAD_to_3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi :) i would be upset but i would chat to him and tell him about it . ask him how long hes been doing it etc he might not do it anymore as he wont know who he is chatting to on the other side of the messages . tell him how it makes you feel and if he really needs to do it can he not just do it with you goodluck x
2007-01-17 04:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, this was wrong of you to do... but you have to know these things and if thats what it takes than so be it. you should DEF confront him... perhaps ask him if he does stuff like that ever honestly, then if he doesnt admit it, then you pull out the evidence. good luck!
2007-01-17 04:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋