I believe that people are unfaithful for a variety of reasons, but I think it is possible for somebody to cheat and still love their significant other. Thoughts?
2007-01-16 20:24:39 · 21 answers · asked by fernando v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i say no, because love is bases on trust and respect. if my husband cheated it whould show how little he respected me and how little i could trust him. disrespecting someone like that is like spitting in their face and it isnt something you get over. you could try to work it out but you'd just be prolonging the fact that trust is hard to earn the first time and impossible the second, and respect just doesnt need an explaination. it is either there or it isnt.
2007-01-16 20:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by painfully yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to give a yes or no answer to this question only because there is different kind of love If a spouse can cheat on husband/wife then no doubht no love there either person can say I Love You but the real question is (ARE YOU IN LOVE?
THERES A DIFFERENCE) iF A PERSON IS_IN LOVE they wouldnt even have a thought of doing so, but if now it has become a convenience because they have been together for along time the cheating will happen.
2007-01-16 20:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, my ex found out the hard way, I told her "you want him you keep him". Packed my clothes and left, I could never trust her again. Look at that question the other way, If you cheated on your significant other, would you be willing to loose them? This is the question people should ask before they decide to cheat, and if you answer "Yes", you should probably go your separate ways.
2007-01-16 20:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by D.B. Cooper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend cheated on me and I was heartbroken. He felt really bad. He was crying and saying that it was the biggest mistake of his life. I believed him, so I gave him a second chance. Now, we've been married for 5 months and we're really happy. I was willing to work it out with him and I am so glad I did. I think everyone makes mistakes and they deserve second chances. People might think I'm stupid for taking him back and marrying him, but I think I made the right choice.
2007-01-16 21:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not even a problem in a relationship where there is open and honest communication! Cheating is a symptom of far deeper problems, so working it out would depend on the ability to solve the other problems!
2007-01-16 20:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved your partner you would not cheat. You would care for your partners feelings and know that by cheating on them you would hurt them no end. Its not possible to be in love with someone but have sex with another. You would only get turned on by the one you love.
2007-01-17 01:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by ashwellgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there could still be love, but I'm not willing to work things out with a cheater. It hurts to end the relationship but it hurts only once.
2007-01-16 20:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not work things out, I would break up with my bf if he cheated on me. Of course it's possible to cheat on someone while still being in love with their partner. Sheesh. However, being faithful to your partner shows that you only want to be with her, that you respect her and don't want to cause her pain.
2007-01-16 21:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relatively relatively relies upon on the guy and the situation. a great form of guys use the "drunkness" as an excuse to misbehave by utilising way of actuality they comprehend that they are able to regulate the situation and wash their arms off all responsibly if something undesirable have been given right here approximately. of path, there are bastards obtainable who will cheat in spite of in the event that they are sober, yet does lesser evil advise good? i could like grownup adult men who by no capacity misbehave. yet in spite of if, if a guy that i grew to become with for 30 years grew to become thoroughly undemanding yet had a "slip up" in the time of one in all his worst days of his lifestyles, i could be forgiving for the sake of what we've had so a great way.
2016-12-16 06:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by woolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really is up to you alone.Although...the chances of it happening again is very likely. It really just depends on how you feel. Do you have hope? If there is still hope, then maybe it's possible. Wish I could give you a better answer.
2007-01-16 20:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥2323vsb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋