he actually doesn't know that i love him..but i'm so afraid to tell him because i'm 100% sure that he'll leave and if he didn't leave he'll neve trust me..and never love me...if i knew that i'll fall in love with him i would have tell him the truth!!!!!!so disappointed and cofused i need help plz
2007-01-16 19:22:19 · 21 answers · asked by no care for all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my lie was about my age i told him that i'm 2 years older...and that's it.....
2007-01-16 19:43:56 · update #1
i tried to tell him many times but he thought that i was just kidding and he was changing the sub quickly like he knows...and i tried to tell his brother but he didn't help meeee....i know myself i won't be able to say it one more timee.at the same time if he loves i won't 4give myself:(
2007-01-16 19:48:14 · update #2
plzzzzzzzzz more answers.........................
2007-01-16 20:03:35 · update #3
what does age have to do with it,you cant help who you fall in love with. just 2 years i am sure it want kill him.
2007-01-17 00:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you then it wouldn't matter if you lied about your age. Age is really just a number. If he breaks up with you then, it means he loved you because he thought you were older or rather mature (not saying you're not). However, some guys may like woman that are older. And, a relationship is all about trust. If you can't even tell him the truth then that's not a good relationship, especially if he finds out the truth from someone else. Then he'll be really upset, because you LIED to him. Oh, and the fact that you told him and he thought you were just kidding. You should just sit down and talk to him, and tell him you're really serious about it. If he still think it's a joke convince him that it's the truth and there's not joke about it. Or maybe you can even show an I.D? There's gotta be a way to let him know the truth!
2007-01-17 04:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by tSk1LLz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing u can do is tell with the truth. It would not b a big deal unless u r underage and he is not. And the problem wouldn't probably b with him but with your parents and the police. If thats the case u can wait till ur overage 21 there is a lot of time ahead of u and a lot other guys for u to meet.
2007-01-17 03:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should be pure and without any expectations.
So first of all judge yourself, do you have any expectations from him? whether he loves you or not?
If the answer is yes, you should be sure that U don't love him and this is just an infatuation.
And if you still find that you are in love, then also expression of every love is not required, and at the same time this is also not necessary that you should not express.
If you have courage to face the situation whatever happens afterwards, go ahead and do express you love As Soon As You can do it, without making any delay.
BEST OF LUCK
2007-01-17 03:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by rohitkt_dbg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the lie? There may be a way to blame it on someone else or change the story a bit to make it look not so bad. BUT honesty is the best no matter what you did. If he loves you, he will stick around but if he leaves then you learned a big lesson DONT LIE!!
2007-01-17 03:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will you ever know if he loves you, if you aren't honest with him? If you are so sure that he wouldn't love you if you told him the truth, then what is the point of pursuing him? What you are saying is, "I want him to love me without knowing me". "I want him to trust me, even though I lied to him". That is expecting quite alot. Tell him the truth. If he forgives you, you can move forward. If he doesn't, then at least you gave him the opportunity.
But if you hide it, he may discover the truth himself, and apologizing then will be too late.
2007-01-17 03:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sould help if told a little bit more about the problem of no tellin the truth....but sooner or later hes gonna find out....if u keep ur love inside its jus gonna build up n make u go crazy....all u have 2 do is jus tlk 2 him n tell him how u feel...he's not gonna leave 100% u don know that for sure...
if u jus hav a crush on him then its fine...if u love him u have got to tell him....
2007-01-17 03:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you enough he will understand. You have to take a risk to see if this relationships is worth having because he will probably find out the truth anyway if the two of you stay together.
2007-01-17 03:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how much u value your friendship. U would have to be willing to risk it. if so then tell him how u feel and know that if u get the answer u wanted u can move on. If not than good luck being stuck in the friend zone
2007-01-17 04:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he finds out the truth from you, he will probably leave. But after he leaves he realizes that you loved him that why you told him the truth and he will come back.
If he finds out the truth from some one else, he will think you deceived him and he will never come back.
2007-01-17 03:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mafia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls b urself.when u know its you,be sincere to urself that things can possible work out.let me tell u....the truth can be hidden for long time .but one day,it will reveal itself.it does not matter how long.my mom usually tell me that a lier is like a thief.be urself.there is always reasons for making you whom u are.no matter what ,stop pretending cos u cant keep all long that way 4 he is not a hand bag.
2007-01-17 05:22:44 · answer #11 · answered by princessadaku 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋