is it bad for our physical and meantal health if we dont get married and have kids?

Question

im gonna turn 30 and the prssure to be married and have kids is building up so much....is it a big deal?

Answer 1

I am 28 and I feel a lot of pressure from other people to do these things. However, I am happy to be single and that does not mean I cannot have a happy and healthy life. For all the married people with children I see so many who are angry/sad and I do not want to be like that. I will only get married when I have found the perfect person and time to do this and I really am not worried if other people think I am falling behind.

Answer 2

You cant let age pass by. At a certain age you shouldnt be having kids. You are still young. You dont have to be married to have kids but it would be good if you were. If your with the person that you want to be with forever then I would say go for the marriage. BY 30, you should be thinking about marriage and kids. Its normal

Answer 3

They say married men live longer- but I think it just seems longer (drum rim shot). I am in better shape than my married counterparts as a single man, because I have more time to go to the gym whenver I want, and I don't have to eat whatever the family meal is.

I used to think I was alone till I spent a few weeks at my sisters house who is maried with a family. Terrible tension there- I was never more alone than in that family.

Answer 4

I dont think so kids yeah maybe as you have some one to carry ont he name etc but for some ppl they just dont want kids wchich is fair enough im not for marrige as ifar too many of them end up in divorce and its such a big expensive day for what bit of paper might be someones cup of tea but not mine mybe in 30 years time if im still with my partner i might get married but it will prolly be a negas thing lol

Answer 5

It's really up to who you are. Some people have a need to procreate, while others don't.

Are you happy with your current lifestyle? (And by this I don't mean the nagging relatives.)

If you ever find the right person, maybe you will want all those things, but for now, tell everyone else to put a sock in it.

You're old enough to say what you will do with your life.

Answer 6

No not at all. ALot of people dont get married or have kids but the do have relationships. Lets say like jhonny deep and his gf theyve been together for like 15 years or sumting like that and there not married but just minus the kids. lol

Answer 7

Studies show that married men live longer than single ones. It's also shown that married women live SHORTER than single ones! ^_^;; doesn't say much for us guys does it? Try it, you might like the married with kids life!

Answer 8

I would talk to people who are married with kids. Many of them tell me that it's actually BETTER to stay single, lol

Answer 9

You must be joking ???

I would rather die than to poop out a huge baby and let the thing suck my breast for months on end. Then what do you know saggy breasts and belly that hangs.Also I will not mention the other thing that is destroyed from giving birth.

So if you are dieing to give birth that LET IT RIP

Answer 10

yeah pressure sucks, but you cant argue destiny. if its meant to happen, itll happen! its as simple as that! but that also doesnt mean that you can sit on the couch and expect mr.right to come by and randomly knock on your door.... you should be open to the idea of having mr.right (IF U WANT) and keep yourself available! if not, then dont worry about what others say. its about YOUR happiness, not theirs. LET DESTINY LEAD THE WAY!