Ever since I was a kid, I dreamt about girls boobs. I just want to touch them or kiss them when I see nice boobs. I even had a girlfriend and I was just happy playing with them and didn't push for sex. She said I was crazy and still stayed with me for awhile. Am I crazy? Does this make me a boobaholic? Should I get sex therapy? Sorry I can't help myself! I have to ask.. :( If you're a girl, do you have nice boobs?
2007-01-16 19:14:15 · 12 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's called a fetish. I'd say 99.9% of men share your fetish to some degree. Just try to be thoughtful of your partners needs and i'm sure she wont care
BTW, there're real and there're fantastic!
2007-01-16 19:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are asking if you are a pervert and require therapy to 'rid you of this'? Naaaah, you are absolutely 100% healthy - you're what they call 'a boob guy'. This is NOT a fetish: a fetish requires that an inanimate object (which rules out boobs - but would include shoes, undies, etc. You get the point) ...be present in order for 'sex' to happen at all. What follows are certain criteria for bona-fide perversions (including but not limited to fetishes and FETISH OBJECTS):
"Paraphilias differ from what some people might consider "normal" sexual activity in that these behaviors cause significant distress or impairment in areas of life functioning. They do NOT refer to the normal use of sexual fantasy, activity or objects to heighten sexual excitement where there is no distress or impairment. The most common signs of sexual activity that can be classified as paraphilia include: the inability to resist an impulse for the sexual act, the requirement of participation by nonconsenting or under-aged individuals, legal consequences, resulting sexual dysfunction, and interference with normal social relationships.
Paraphilias include fantasies, behaviors, and/or urges which:
0.involve nonhuman sexual objects, such as shoes or undergarments
0.require the suffering or humiliation of oneself or partner
0.involve children or other non-consenting partners
The most common paraphilias are:
0.exhibitionism, or exposure of the genitals
0.fetishism, or the use of nonliving objects
0.frotteurism, or touching and rubbing against a nonconsenting person
0.pedophilia, or the focus on prepubescent children
0.sexual masochism, or the receiving of humiliation or suffering
0.sexual sadism, or the inflicting of humiliation or suffering
0.transvestic fetishism, or cross-dressing
0.voyeurism, or watching others engage in undressing or sexual activity
A paraphiliac often has more than one paraphilia. Paraphilias often result in a variety of associated problems, such as guilt, depression, shame, isolation, and impairment in the capacity for normal social and sexual relationships. A paraphilia can, and often does, become highly idiosyncratic and ritualized."
2007-01-16 19:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are perfect manager material at hooters bar and grill, it is the perfect job for you. There is nothing wrong with liking boobs, heck i love boobs a lot and i think I'm a very normal guy, just try and think about other things as well, like work, bills, and fun, don't have a one track mind.
2007-01-16 23:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I check out boobs and butts all the time. I believe myself to be a very mentally healthy person. Just keep staring until you get smacked or maced.
2007-01-16 19:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
"if you're a girl, do you have nice boobs?"
Uhhhhh...nice way to finish your question. Haha. Perhaps, you're a bit obsessed. But the best way to take your mind of something is to focus it on something else...
Hopefully something productive. =^p
2007-01-16 19:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sudy Nim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend says I have nice boobs..and no I don't really think you need help, I just think you are a typical guy..but if that's all you think about 24/7 then you might need to find a hobby to occupy you
2007-01-16 19:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Amber M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this turns out to be a REAL problem, please save me a seat at the group. I'm 58 years old, do you think I might still outgrow it. Not that I really want to but if it's a problem.....
Come on guy, take care of your partner and she will take care of you.
2007-01-17 05:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you are not the first of the kind because all mammal living things come out to this world, the first thing they wanna to Boo from mama!
2007-01-16 19:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
girls are obsessed with how much money you have and how you can spend all your hard earn money on her and her friends. with no money dont think about it.
2016-03-29 01:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do, thanks for asking... and i love these girls very much...
sex-therapy probably wouldn't be a bad idea for u if that's all ur thinking about.... otherwise... no, you're normal
2007-01-16 19:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by Its Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋