Just wanting to vent!?

Question

I am approximately 10 weeks along and I feel like death. Does anyone else feel this bad? I can't sleep or eat, I just want to hug my toilet all day. I feel like I am dieing almost every minute of the day. I just guess this time around is taking a bigger toll on my body than the last. My poor wardrobe is more depressed than me! In 10 weeks, I think there's a monster growing in there not a tiny baby! I'll never make it to 40 weeks! Am I alone in this boat or is anyone else with me? I just think I need a good old
fashioned cry. Suppose that will help us??

Answer 1

I am in the same boat as you. I am 9 weeks and i feel like hell. I am vomiting whole day, i have cramps (very severe) due to a bladder infection, i have terrible headaches, annoying backpains and on top of all that i found out that i have a huge hemmroid in my *** so i can't sit or stand or even bend down. I feel like i am dying but as i told my bf the hardest part of feeling like your dying is knowing you are going to live after this.

Girl i tried crying my eyes out it helped a little. But for me screaming at possibly everyone helps but the feeling of guilt and loneliness at the end doesn't make you feel any better, so i suggest that you don't do that. Maybe support knowing that you aren't the only person going through this can help. If you need to talk to person who dying also you can email me at [e-mail].

Good luck!!!!!

Answer 2

oh bless u. I know EXACTLY how u feel, as I felt the same (and still do sometimes). Im now 22 weeks and its only in the last couple of weeks Ive felt a bit better. Ive felt depressed, blobby, miserable, tired, moody and not really enjoying the pregnancy at all, which was upsetting in itself as i was dying to get pregnant and looking forward to it. Its not always a bed of roses many say it is. Take a small comfort in the fact that, unless u are extremely unlucky, the sickness will pass in the next few weeks. I found the backache and acid indegestion that comes after is copeable compared to the sickness. Hang in there honey, I know its crap but I promise, it WILL get better. Good luck

Answer 3

Alright, i'm 35 weeks along...and i too feel like death! i mean, what am i still doing up at 3 in the morning?!?!?!?!? I have been hugging my toilet all day too, and i'm just lucky to not have a depressed wardrobe...but you know what? i'm really looking forward to seeing those lil fingers and toes, so i just keep on doing what my body allows me to do. i am at home alone while my husband is overseas and i just cry my lil heart out when i need it. don't worry, things will get better. just try to drink water and cry and hug your toilet. this will pass. i know it seems like forever, but eventually it will pass. with my first i felt like laying on the floor and starting myself on fire. i was that desperate to want to get this whole thing over with!!! you'll make it to 40 weeks. at least you will have a special bond with your toilet ;o). hang in there and let it all out one day a week or maybe 2-3!!! don't hold back your feelings! good luck!!!! and be greatful that in 30 weeks, your baby that caused you to feel like death will make you feel so alive!!!

Answer 4

My sister-in-law had a rough second pregnancy after a considerably easier first, too. It happens, every pregnancy is different, even for the same woman. It's also completely normal to get bigger faster for a second pregnancy because the tissues stretch easier the second time.

Sometimes a good cry does help, but you might also want to try ginger, which has been used for centuries to ease morning sickness (which is a stupid name for something that doesn't repect the clock).

Answer 5

I know how you feel I am 32 weeks pregnant and remember being so sick for about a month. For me it started at 8 weeks peaked at 11 and I was feeling pretty decent by 13. Just hang in there and you will be through it before you know it. I wish you the best.

Answer 6

You poor thing!
I went through that with my son, and I still remember how shockingly awful I felt. Anything green - a car, grass, broccoli, ANYTHING green - made me sick!
Where is your partner in this pregnancy? Find him and make him massage your feet, go to the shop and buy the largest block of chocolate, hire girly-movies from the video shop - ANYTHING!
If he is at work, ring him and tell him how you feel, after all, he was there for the fun part. He needs to be there for the not-so-fun part too!
All the best to you. Soon you will have a cute little baby. I am jealous. 3 for me and no more...
Now I am sad!

Answer 7

It's completely normal and should wear off in a couple of weeks. Some ppl are like that thru the whole pregnancy. Have you tried crackers and Sprite....help with the throwing up. Good luck and Congrats

Answer 8

Sorry you're feeling crappy. The first trimester is almost over! Then the honeymoon will begin. Hang in there. It's get better for the second. The third isn't much better then the first, minus the throwing up, but at least it's almost over :-)

Answer 9

Look at it this way:

My sister-in-law has had four miscarriages. She recently became pregnant again, and for the first time their baby grew to the size of an egg, and my brother and his wife could hear the baby's heartbeat. It was so exciting, and they had names picked out and everything.

My sister-in-law miscarried that baby. Shock, horror, confusion... why?? All they want in life is a baby of their own. They are in the process of adoption, but it doesn't lessen the pain and emotional turmoil.

So... be happy that the precious gift of life has been given to you and your developing bundle of joy.

Blessings to you and your family.. good luck with your pregnancy! It's a rough time, but you'll get through it. :)

Answer 10

If a cry will help go for it!!!!!! Dry crackers or dry toast can sometimes help with the nausea but you sound extreme!
Best of luck, and hang in there!