It seems like no matter what, the "coolest" kids in my area always seem to end up finding each other

Question

IM IN COLLEGE NOW, BUT IVE NOTICED THIS EVER SINCE I WAS IN MIDDLE SCHOOL.

EVEN IF THEY ARE INTO TOTALLY DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES, THEY ALL STILL SEEM TO HANG OUT WITH EACH OTHER AT PARTIES, GET-TOGETHERS, ETC.

SO IT CAN'T BE THAT THEY'VE JUST RANDOMLY FOUND EACH OTHER, THERE'S SOMETHING ELSE GOING ON HERE. WHAT THE **** ...... AND I'M NOT A PART OF IT.

THE REASON IS NOT BECAUSE I HAVEN'T BEEN THEIR FRIEND SINCE THE START, EVEN THOUGH A LOT OF THEM HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FROM THE START, BECAUSE IF A NEW KID MOVES INTO TOWN THEY'VE NEVER HEARD OF BEFORE, HE STILL HAS A SHOT AT HANGING OUT WITH THEM STILL.

IVE NEVER UNDERSTOOD THIS, AND IT'S DRIVING ME INSANE. IM A VERY GOOD LOOKING GUY, SO IT'S NOT JUST LOOKS OBVIOUSLY. IT'S SOMETHING ELSE. WHAT THE **** IS THE PROBLEM.

Answer 1

Basic law of physics. Like attracts like. Be different. It is a lot more fun.

Answer 2

I don't now , its one of life's little mysteries. But people seem to fall all into thier own little cliques. I'm out of high school , I never thought I was in a clique . But when I look back at it I was . I was in a group of my own little friends and we had a place where we sat in the halls at lunch. We didn't sit in the cafeteria cause all the uptight kids sat in there.

Answer 3

It's sort of like those zombies or tremors things that are attracted by noises or vibrations we can't detect, just like pink flamingos or yard gnomes tend to congregate in dooryards. I wouldn't lose sleep over it, I'd just worry about the fox hunt if I were you.

Answer 4

It's a conspiracy! The communist put them up to it! Forget it man, you were not meant to run with the crowd. So lead instead. Like invent the pet rock or something.

Answer 5

'i pass over the days once I had mine!" the final element i estimated on the tip of the shaggy dog tale..this alteration into great humorous, a astounding chuckle at something i woulda on no account guessed..hehe...its great!

Answer 6

great question

so you have been friends.....maybe its an acquaintances status u really have with them........the kewl kids keep the club exclusive....but keep others around wanting in.....to keep their popularity factor high

scarcity...and exclusive.....makes it a more valuable....

the kewl kids like to keep the cream of the crop exclusive and take new ones to show they allow others in to make others jealous

seems like your a pawn...to hang and pawn to get in..gives them power.....sorry to hear

looks is part of it....another is the ability to afford the lifestyle...and your trendy awareness factor....do you know what is trendy....or do you follow...that makes a big cut to the group

you take away their power if u don't seek hang with them...and go ur own way....power is only viable if u bestow it....its ur power to exude also.....or create a new group

find a knockout date...and a knock out event...make them weep...

my best bud in high school, his uncle--a well know doctor dated the local concert promoter.........we hung out with celebs in the green room....drove the kewl kids crazy....and me my bud refused to hang out with them....we also dated hot girl from other school....(the local college)

find some thing exclusive ....let it be know...and don't include the kewl ones....you'll make them envy of you and your new friends

good luck

Answer 7

i think it might have something to do with who you know and how they know you. and a nother thing ive noticed is that the new people are usually introduced bo the people in that group as well... and dressing style has a really big impact as well.

well i hoped i helped

Dannij

Answer 8

Start by being social and positive instead of giving off a bad vibe with your ALL CAPS and your jealousy.

Answer 9

i think those type of people have more outgoing personalities so they end up finding each other.

Answer 10

you can't care about it. the really cool people don't.