2007-01-16 16:57:59 · 6 answers · asked by smiyololo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I always heard a person say he would give me punishment, or discipline, only because he cared about me. He was my Junior High School counselor. I think that discipline can change behavior, so if you love someone enough, that you can see they have destructive behavior, then you will discipline them.
2007-01-16 17:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by mmwreal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about children, there is a huge connection. I love my kids more than anything but, when they have gotten into a bit of trouble - I say they cannot go outside that day (or whatever) of course they give me that pouty look and it does make me feel so bad BUT - I LOVE them and if I don't ground them once in awhile they will never learn that there are consequences to broken rules. I NEVER believe in "physical discipline"! Adults is a different matter, what kind of discipline are you talking about?
2007-01-17 01:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discipline without love is not discipline; it's punishment. Discipline is given to a child for the child's benefit to aid in the direction of wisdom and maturity. Punishment is given in anger to appease the giver. Anything done without GOD is done without love. Anything done without love is done without GOD. "GOD is LOVE."
2007-01-17 01:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by windwalker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with my kids, its "I love them enough to want them to do right, so I discipline them"
otherwise I wouldnt give a crap otherwise and allow them to do what they want when they want..
So I think with love comes discipline.. I tell them this also when I do correct them...
2007-01-17 01:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mintee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safety. You don't want someone you love to die, so you discipline them.
2007-01-17 01:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is none
2007-01-17 01:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by JT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋