i want to give my daughter a good future,
i want to give her what she wants and i want to see her happy and successful. anyone can tell me if that plan is good for my daughter or that can make her sad and upset?
2007-01-16 16:49:32 · 6 answers · asked by blehtin 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
depends on how old your daughter is. but make sure she understands before you make that decision.
Good luck and hope everything works well.
2007-01-16 17:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.90703 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to sacrifice your relationship with your daughter in exchange for a better future, why not? Being away from your daughter can mean a lot of things, but she can grow up to be a fine lady even you away. The point is, you have to know your priority.
If I were you, I'd get a job abroad for 1 yr first. That is to try things out. If it works out, then you can decide to continue or go back. I have lots of friends and relatives who has this set-up and it worked out for them. The ideal is you can take your family with you.
But remember, time lost can never to brought back.
2007-01-17 02:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by HK gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter deserves everything, we as mother strive to give them the best., for them to do good and successful. Your plan is typical of a good parent, it is heart felt. Let me tell you a story first.
Forty years ago a woman married a foreigner not for love but for financial security for her family but most importantly for her 2 children aged 6 and 8 years old. She left her children with her mother. While abroad she work hard very hard and six years later she brought her children to Australia. Both of her children are now adults one is a teacher and one is an accountant, they both married Filipino nurses from Philippines and now have children.
My point is the children were raised properly, the absence of their mother did not affect them psychologically. They know that their mother is away because she wants good future for them. I AM THE MOTHER OF THOSE 2 CHILDREN.
2007-01-17 01:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by trykindness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have good opportunity regardless on where you are..Its how you persevere and work hard to meet your goals.
Did you ask your daughter what she wants? Its the common mistakes of most parents that they think good education, expensive clothes and jewelries will make their children happy. You are just teaching your child to be materialistic at an early age. Happiness comes from within..In the eyes of a child happiness is when she have quality time with parents..regardless on what you are doing and eating..
I grew up to a poor family, I studied in public school, but im happy, I have very unforgetable childhood because i grew up together with my parents..we share everything..picnics..going to the beach..harvesting in the farm..
On the other side.. my uncle left his job as a manager here in Manila and went to Canada. He received 5 times of what he is getting here..But..my cousins grew up barely knowing him..My cousins studied in exclusive schools..they had everything that is material..but not time,care, of a loving parent..They told me..they envy me..because they can see how happy I am..
Happiness and success is not measured by material things..
Think about it..
2007-01-17 03:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have good intentions for the welfare of your kid. Well, if your daughter is on her teens, she needs your attention more than money. If you want to work abroad, try un.org for employment.
2007-01-17 07:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mutya P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan's good but see that she i ready for it
2007-01-17 00:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋