my wife and i have been married for a little over 2 yrs. up until7mnths ago we havent at all. we get along great and im having trouble figuring this out. i know she is not cheating. has she lost interest in me? i need advice
2007-01-16 16:40:36 · 20 answers · asked by KELLY W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You mean you have not had sex in the last 7 months? I don't really understand your wording. Anyway, yes, she must have just lost interest in you. Try being romantic. Take her out on a date and love on her. Maybe she is just waiting for you to go back to treating her like you did when you were dating and you went out of your way to make her feel special.
2007-01-16 16:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she is cheating or has lost intrest with you. there is a point in a womans life where she gets tired of the same old thing s and want sto branch out go places shes neevr been before. Its a little thing known as mid life crisis. I know shes probably not even in her mid life yet but not all people need to be in there age to have any type of crisis. Tell her you love her. Get her something that you know she will appreciate. Im not saying you have to buy her love but just let her know that you appreciate her. And if she is cheating then go out and party lol.
I hope some of that helped ( btw i was joking about the partying thing )
2007-01-16 16:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by gypsytrend14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a female here. Do you make her feel special at all? That would be the first place I would start. Little things like admire her. Don't expect her to 'jump right in' after you tell her she looks great. Ease into the love.
You need to make her feel like she is the most precious person on the entire earth. Notice everything about her. If you tell her you love her, mean it. Leave her cards, if she likes gifts, give her gifts. If you can't afford stuff, do things for her. If you don't know what things to do for her, think! What doesn't she like to do around your home?? Do those things. She will notice, trust me. As she starts to feel that you are paying more attention to her then you might ease into what has been bothering her, or just drop it all together until sometime way down the road (like never).
She will give you a clue as to if she wants to talk about it.
You know your wife, is she a touch person, a gift person, a do something for me person, a surprise me person, or a listen to me person?
Did she lose a baby? Is she afraid to tell you? Just a thought. She might not be able to tell you and be afraid to get pregnant again.
Save your marriage.
2007-01-16 16:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by nadda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to be honest & open with your wife. Tell her that you are confused and want to resolve this issue. Tell her how much you love her and ask her how she is feeling. Sometimes just opening the lines of communication can get you on your way to resolving the problem. It could be a hormone issue with your wife & maybe she should make an appointment with her ob/gyn. If talking fails (some people just *cannot* talk about sex--they find it too embarrassing) It might not be a bad idea to see a marriage counselor or sex therapist. Best of luck to you!
2007-01-16 16:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by Justified 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kelly's picture, but are you Kelly writing? Anyway, get a copy of Gary Chapman's "Five Love Languages" and read it together,which will help you both figure out how to refill your "love tanks." Couples, especially women, have more love buttons to push than just the sexual button (physical touch). So, we guys (if you're a guy) must fill the other love tanks, in addition to the ones below the waist, if you caught my drift.
2007-01-16 16:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be at a point in her life where everything seems crazy and she doesn't have the time to think about it. Do you have kids, crazy schedules? Talk to her and tell her you are concerned with the "lost of interest". But i think you'll find out that she hasn't "lost interest" just "lost time". Good luck!
2007-01-16 16:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused up until 7 months ago after 2 years of marriage we haven't ......What you where married for 2 years before you had sex ? ice cream realized you where both women that may be the problem speak in complete sentences
2007-01-16 16:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by LCee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time for a revival.............take her on a date man i dont mean just go out for dinner or a movie, take her on a date remember when you first met and your goal was to make her smile make her happy, she was your everything bring that back, wine and dine her, flowers the whole nine yards, wake up everyday and ask yourself how can i make my wife happy today have a sit down let her know how you feel ask her what has been bothering over a dinner that you cooked..........good luck
2007-01-16 16:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by crooky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him you lost interest in him .. Tried it many times.. it worked for me... Act like you lost interest and only think about your self.. how u look like.. take good care of yourself...
Oh believe me.. Remember how you looked like when he first met you.. Remember how you never forgot to shave or always looked your best infront of him.... oh you know what if you can get guy to notice you everywhere you go out with him.. but you dont notice others.. that'll make him go crazy... and 2 years will rewind!!
2007-01-16 16:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Reen D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her? Maybe try to win her back...send her flowers, leave little notes around so she can find it...the little things you did for her in the beginning_
2007-01-16 16:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋