What makes a woman perfect? (only personality wise) Guys answer honestly pweeez?

Answer 1

A good sense of humor and the feeling of friendship.

Answer 2

'Perfect' is a bit of a paradox.

By having the 'perfect' personality, it is by definition, not perfect, or not perfect, depending on which way you look at it.

Make any sense? I didn't think so. Let me try a bit harder.

If you have a personality which is always agreeing with others, letting them take the lead, being the 'perfect' dutiful woman, then you're being weak, which is not perfect.

And if you're being strong, and individual, having your own wants and needs, and expressing them to your partner, then you are not being the 'perfect woman', and are thus not perfect.

Now does it make sense? I hope so.

Honestly, you're better off being yourself, than trying to be 'perfect'. We all know that perfect doesn't exist, and so if you seem perfect to your partner, then they will believe that something is definitely wrong. And so, being yourself is more 'perfect' than being perfect.

Now do you see the paradox? :-)

Honestly, the most enjoyable relationships I have had in the past were far from perfect. And it was that 'lack of perfection' that, in my eyes, made them so enjoyable and memorable.

Remember, it's not only the similarities between two people that make the relationship happen, it's the differences too. And the mystery is always the best bit. :-)

Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Joint is right affinity is the key. You want someone you can relax and be yourself around.

In the long run, you can't be with someone all the time if you have to keep your "party manners" on all the time. Oh a guy can keep up a good act for a while, especially if the girl is cute; but sooner or later people have to be who they really are. If a guy can't be himself around you, sooner or later it will just get to be too much work to be around you, and he'll go. Low maintance is a must for a long term relationship, and the key to low maintance is affinity.


It really helps if she likes the same things you like. If you like Opera and he likes Rodeo, then he may go to the Opera with you, on occasion, if you push him, but he won't like it. If however you BOTH like Opera then a trip to the Opera isn't "maintance", it's a fun activity he will look forward to.

Thats why I love tomboys because you can relax when you are with a tomboy. You can talk football or baseball and she won't make you watch WE (television for women) or talk about OPRAH. No silly acts, no pretending to be dumb when they really wern't, no B.S. no games, no "I'm so helpless". (I HATE helpess people. I can't respect them and thats a Major turn off for me, I can't be with someone I don't respect.) Also tomboys are normally smart, and smart is a must for me. I don't have the patience to deal with a dumb person all the time, no matter how cute she may be.

The relationships were honest and baised on mutual respect and friendship, as well as attraction. You need both if you want a real relationship.

Answer 4

What makes a perfect woman? Someone who loves you for who you are and care about your feelings inside and out. Someone who speak the truth and let you learn the meaning of life each and everyday. Also not just being fair but being equal in everyway possible. Lastly, someone who is fun to be around with and the best friend everyone wants.

Answer 5

To me it is way I feel around her. She makes me feel great. She makes me proud to be associated with her. She is bright, pretty, witty, able to give as good as she takes. She usually knows just the right thing to say to you and it is said at the perfect moment. There usually is this enormous attraction between the two of you. You can look her in the eye and know it is time to find a private place or moment for just the two of you. She should be the best part of the day.

That is the sappy husbandly answer.

Answer 6

Nothing. Just as nothing makes a guy perfect. He or she may be perfect for someone, just not everyone. Alls she has to do to be perfect for me is show me she into me, if she is. Don't need gifts, or to be told every 5 minutes. Just some gesture or look. If she really is into you, she'll know you, and what makes you tick, and then act on that. It really is the little things that make us happy. Gifts and this and that can be a cover-up for them not really knowing how to express themselves, both guys and girls. As if they are BUYING the relationship. If you dig him, let him know it. He will also know if you're not sincere.

Answer 7

Open, honest, thoughtful and patient communication.

And in my book, baby talk like 'pweeez' is heading in the wrong direction!

Answer 8

Personality wise? Well, let's see...a good circle of friends. That shows she's not crazy. A sense of herself. That show's she not insecure and clingy. A sense of humor. That shows that she's not bitchy. Awareness of things going on in the world. That shows she knows there's more to life than her reflection in the mirror. She should be able to hold intelligent conversations and not be jealous of any other person around. Wow..that seems like a lot, but I've known a lot of women like that. The last one had all that but also had a love of sports...so I married her!

Answer 9

Personality wise. Nice, accepting, loving, caring, loyal, funny, common interests, outgoing, loving. Doesn't play games and tell me what she is thinking.

When I say accepting I mean when you find out he is kinda fat or he has a scar on his back. ETC you accept him for whatever he is and still love him.

I like a girl that can be goofy with a serious side to her. A girl that likes to hug a lot and be held. Would be nice to find one.

Answer 10

I think first of all the woman should not be selfish, second of all be friendly, fair and honnest with her partner and doesnot expose her own partner secrets to no one even to her own parents. thats what it makes the perfect woman in the world, and also she should take little things that happen in life seriously, for instance little mistakes.

Answer 11

You always hear be yourself, but I think affinity is the key. Name one person that is perfect.
Parts of attraction are based on flaws, everyone's personality has flaws, some people like me have many. These flaws are something your true mate will see as cute or adorable.