why is it that a young man's target is his teenage peers, who are not comfortable with it, are too uptight to have any fun at it, and their ignorance about effective birth control usually has unwelcome consequences, when logically they could have a number of uninhibited horny and neglected house wives who would be more than happy to join in some mutual satisfaction? The older women have birth control down pat, most of the time the men are unaware of it. They don't hang a lot of emotional baggage on you and don't really care if you leave right away, or don't call the next day. Plus, older women (30ish+) are much more comfortable with their bodies, are not afraid to flaunt it, or even undress for you, all with the lights on, and you don't need a pair of bolt cutters to get into her panties. Men and women have such drastically different peaks, it's not fair. The women should teach the men(18) to pleasure their women when they marry. What do you think?
2007-01-16 16:21:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's nothing to do with me personally, I was making an abstract observation, particularly the numbers which look like this:
18---peak for men, their partners age 16-25 (lets just say)and they have a wonderful time.
15-25 for girls, it seems it's all we can do to fight them off.
35----peak for women, their partners age from say 25-45
It's been my experience that most men have slowed down by this age, especially after 40. He's done(not TOTALLY, you know what I mean), but she's rarin to go.
But if a woman has a boyfriend who is at their sexual peak as well, which would make for some wicked sex wouldn;t it? then people look down on her. It just seems a shame that we all couldn't peak at a more convenient time, and therefore enjoy the whole experience that much more.
2007-01-16 16:35:41 · update #1
I think, it is esential for poulation control, if they both peaked at 18 woo, it would be like china, everywhere. lol
Yea, it should be known, and it doesn't make sence. And the teaching is a huge key, it would save alot of marraiges. Why not create a secret society of milf 's and Help your sisters out...
2007-01-16 16:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by Seerin 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are right, and I know this has been an issue for as many years as anyone can count. The problem is, young men might fancy an older woman but the emotional factor is something you may need to consider...you are toying with a vulnerable mind. Sex for just the act is shallow and means nothing. For some that's not what it is supposed to be. A lot of people want a meaningful relationship--no matter how awkward they may be. Growing up is something we all do and some do it better than others. Older men are just as good and experienced--go find one.
2007-01-17 00:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
interesting question! I personally have always preferred older women. My former mate was 27 and I was 19- we lasted 10 years. I was very happy for most of it but the age thing started to catch up with us(her more than me!) and things fizzled. I have tried dating younger women and women my own age and have found older women to be better in every aspect of a relationship. Older women -especially the married ones who play- can be very intimidating to a younger,immature guy.
2007-01-17 00:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree totally... but also flip the script... a teenage girl is looking for love and all that emotional bs and a older man knows how to give that...so therefor older guys should be with young girls too.
2007-01-17 01:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by donnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a cousin that is 21 dating a 41 year old. he looks like he could be about 35. its his first time being with a woman sexually. i think its different for every male and how he is able to connect with woman. some men wont even speak with older woman because their maturity level is so low it hinders any chances. oh well i guess we have to all explore!
2007-01-17 00:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by worldtravelerrr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, but there is something about younger girls (18) that sexually exciting, maybe the innocents associated with the age, lack of knowledge or experience that you just want to show her the way, the tight body and milky baby skin, guess it's trying to live a fantasy, but in the end the best sex is with a sexually active woman in her 30's who loves the adventure
2007-01-17 00:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You are correct ..
I lost my virginity at age 14 to a 34 yr. old woman..
We had a 3 month long affair and I was the happiest boy in town.
She gave me a true understanding of the joy of sex....
Even now, many years later, I still appreciate and look back
fondly on this beautiful, wonderful, tender, sensitive woman...
2007-01-17 00:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe the sexual peak numbers I'm 39 have sex drive of 20 year old wife says I wear her out. and why do so many guys in their 30's and 40's say their wives aren't interested in sex no more.if that's suppose to be their prime.. are they out cheating...
2007-01-17 00:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by Robert H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women get used to sex n more experinced in 30. n men are always wanting to try something new. how can a women teach when she is not experinced
2007-01-17 00:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by syed d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
35?? Are you sure? I am way past that and seems each year gets better than better. They should pleasure their women before spewing off.
2007-01-17 00:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋