What should i do?

Question

A couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend had sex and im afraid i might be pregnant. When does a women start having signs. i have been having like a discharge, and i feel like i eat a lot more and sleep too. What are some other signs of pregnancy and if i am pregnant how would i tell my mom and boyfriend?

i have also felt like i have to pee all the time im not sure wat this could mean i have talked to a few ppl and i get so many different answer im a lil confused plz help

Answer 1

you're in a sensitive situation, why don't you consult a physician?
Most of the reply you receive here, are none-pro and you can easily be misdirected, so be careful !

Answer 2

Calm down. If you've missed a period then go and get a pregnancy test. If you haven't missed a period yet you could actually delay the start of it by being stressed out. Try to relax(I know it's hard, but it will help.)
If you do end up being pregnant, and if you feel it's safe to tell your boyfriend(if he's not the abusive type), tell him. Tell your Mom, too. She may be disappointed, but you will need all of the support that you can get!
Some of the earliest signs of pregnancy are: tender breasts, nausea, and being tired. The increase in appetite usssssually doesn't come until about the 3rd or 4th month.
Good Luck, Sweetie.

Answer 3

The reason you get so many different answers is that every woman is different. The best thing you can do is wait to see if your period is late. most women have signs of pregnancy after the 2nd month. However some women have symptoms after only a week. Wait for your period and see what happens if you are pregnant the best way to tell them is straight out. Don't beat around the bush about it.

Answer 4

Pregnancy symptoms vary SO much from woman to woman and from pregnancy to pregnancy on the same woman.

The symptoms you describe *could* be pregnancy, but they could *also* be PMS.

Best way to know for sure is to take a home pregnancy test.

I assume by you wondering how to tell mom and boyfriend...you're under 18?

Take the test first...if the outcome is positive, take another test in a week to make sure you didn't get a false positive.

IF it is still positive, you've just got to tell her. Some girls opt to tell a counselor or trusted friend or their friend's mom first to help them break the ice to their mother...some go it alone.

Sure, it may not go the way you hope...but you can't hide a pregnancy, and being without the support of your family can make you weak emotionally and be pushed into things you may not want to do (like abortion or adopting the baby) and there are plenty of people out there who are waiting to prey on your emotions like this.

So, long story short...take the test(s)...fess up...lick your wounds as they happen...but stay strong for whatever path comes your way.

Good luck honey.

Answer 5

Well first off the signs are very close to a period so it is really very difficult to say if you are or not until you have missed your period or are close to doing so. You can take a First Response at home test 5 days before your missed period and that will tell you if you are. Most common sign is sore brests and sometimes morning sickness or food cravings. As for telling them I would wait until you know for sure one way or the other and I would just come right out and tell your boyfriend and when telling your mother just tell her you relized you messed up but you are willing to take the responsiblity for your two's action and you just really could use her knowlege since she has been threw this before. I am sure it will all turn out ok good luck.

Answer 6

Missed period
Unusual or abnormal period
Just "feeling" pregnant
Nausea and Vomiting
Changes in libido
Soreness of the Breasts
Enlargement of the Breasts
Increased Urination
Strange Cravings
Fatigue
Skin Changes
Stretch Marks
Quickening (Fetal Movement)
Colostrum from Breasts
Enlarged Abdomen
Palpation of the Baby Probable
Fetal Heart Tones

Answer 7

i think you should wait until you can use the preg test, since they are 99% accurate. What you are feeling right now, like eating more and frequent urination may just be signs of stress about being pregnant. Don't worry about it, yet, coz this may result you too to delay your period for about a week and a half and may lead you to think that you are pregnant. That happened to me before and even have dreams of babies, same signs like yours, but ended up that i'm not. those are jsut stress, honey! =)

If ever you will result a positive when you try the preg test (if you are not aware of your regularity cycle, just count a month after you had sex) its best to know first what YOUR decision would be. Then tell your Mom, its always best to tell her first since she knows what's going on what;s about to happen tou you, but don't forget to discuss with her what you think. Talk to her about the odds on what if your bf will want it or not. Make her be on your side first. If she knows it first and knows that, she'll feel confident and support you, she doesn't want to be a second, especially on important things like this. THEN, tell your bf.

Answer 8

I think you're worrying too much. The discharge sounds to me like ovulation. I also get sleepy and eat more at this time. As for peeing alot, its either in your head or you have some sort of bladder infection or something. I don't think you're pregnant, but, get a pregnancy test, that'll tell you. And while you're at it, get to the doctor and get on the pill. Good luck!

Answer 9

You could be having those symptoms just because you think that you're pregnant, and you know that those are signs of pregnancy.

You should go to Planned Parenthood or a health nurse and get checked out. They are both cheap, and confidential (they won't tell your parents). Be sure to tell them that you think you may be pregnant. If you aren't you should look into birth control, and it is always a good idea to wrap it up.

Answer 10

Sore breasts, morning sickness, gums bleeding, intensified abilitiy to smell. Wait until you are 2 or 3 weeks late and then take a pregnancy test. About telling your boyfriend and mom.... I would talk to your boyfriend first. Find out how he feels and what role he is willing to play. Does he want the baby or not? Then discuss your options with your mom. If you decide that you dont want the baby, open adoption is a great option.

Answer 11

Go to www.pregnancy.com or earlysignsofpregnancy.com. Trust me they helped me out a lot. No matter how many times I asked everyone or how many answers I got. I still was worried and unsure. If you go to pregnancy.com it will have everything you need to know. Early signs of pregnancy, what to look for,when to take a pregnancy test. It will help. Any question you have or worries this sight will help you. Good Luck.